European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 04, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 18 a a a the stars and stripes Arm Landers dear Ann Landers i know you be written a lot about battered women but most people Arentt aware that teen age girls can be battered too. I began dating a terrific looking Guy when i was 16. He was really Cool and had his own car. A year later i was scared to death of him. I did no to dare Tell my family for fear they a make me Stop seeing him and i did no to want to. If i broke one of his rules he would beat Mes up. Once when i wore my jeans too tight according to him he locked me in the trunk of his car. I thought i would suffocate. It was horrible experience. My family knew nothing of the hell he put me through. He made an Effort to put the bruises where no one would see them. On the rare occasion when they were visible like a Black Eye would Tell people i had had an Accident. I was the Ideal child a i had straight a a got Home on time did All my household chores and never gave my dear Abby dear readers the Pentagon has set up special 24-hour toll free Telephone numbers to be used by relatives of peo pie in the military seeking information about the status of family members stationed in the persian Gulf. They Are army 1-800-626-1440 immediate family members Only air Force 1-800-253-9276 marines 1-800-523-2694 immediate family members Only coast guard 1-800-3678724 Navy 1-800-255-3808 immediate. Family members Only Navy 1-800-732-1206 other relatives and friends callers will be asked for the spelling of the service members last name. They should also be Able to provide As much information As possible about rank social Security number and military unit. The above phone numbers May often be Busy so Call Back until you establish Contact. Dear Abby several women in our office would like your opinion on an Issue that is causing a lot of controversy in our office. A a a a. A a a a a a a a a a a a a a the unwed daughter of one of our co workers is having a baby and some of the girls think it would not be proper for her to have a baby Shower. They say that Only close friends and family should be involved in a Shower for a baby born out of Wedlock we read your column daily and value your opinion. What do you think amp confused in the office dear confused in Many offices co workers Are regarded As a family a quibble monday february 4,1991 parents any trouble. It Wasny to until i attempted suicide at the age of 18 and then got some great counselling that i began to understand How he had taken control of my life. V a. A v a a. Ann please print this letter and Alert teen age girls and their parents to this potentially dangerous situation. No one would have guessed such a thing was going on in my life i realized that i Wasny to alone when i met other Young girls in the support group who were just like me. Lucky to be out of it dear Lucky this is not the first letter in be printed from a teenager who was battered by her Boyfriend. My advice has been to get out at once. No Guy is Worth it. There is no National support group for battered teenage girls but they can Call the Domestic violence hotline for help. The number is 1-800-333-Safe Gem of the Day there was an old woman who lived in a shoe she had so Many children she ran out of names to Call her husband. C creators Syndicate today a crossword and i for one would not judge the Mother to be because of her marital status. V a baby born out of Wedlock is As deserving of a baby Shower As one born of married parents. And probably More in need of one. Dear Abby i can to get Over the letter from the Middle aged Man who was bemoaning the fact that his Middle aged wife of 16 years had confessed on her wedding night that she had had four previous boyfriends lovers before she married him. His whole life was a a haunted by these thoughts of his wife a premarital affairs and he kept wondering what his wife was thinking about while he was having sex with her a and if perhaps she was comparing his performance to the other men she had had. Well i have news for this Guy. In All likelihood the Only thing on his wife a mind during sex is whatever work she had left undone at the office that Day or the upcoming visit to the school guidance Counselor about Johnny a grades or where they were going to get the Money to pay the irs come april 15, or How she is going to squeeze her Mother in Laws grocery shopping Between Janie a acrobatics class and saturday nights choir practice. Did he marry his wife solely for sex and suppose he does actually run into one of her old lovers a does he actually believe the Guy will even remember her name after 16 years let alone bring up the subject in conversation lets face it Abby if the Sparks were that terrific 16 years ago it Only confirms his excellent judgment in getting a ring on her Finger and a permanent commitment from so desirable a female. Mrs. . In Ocala Fla. De arg thanks. You make an excellent Point. A c Universal press Syndicate across 1 Jalopy to some a. A 5 prickly see Case 8 like some cheeses 12 British. Composer 13 political a org.,. 14 pro a 15 work Crew 16 Mountain Ash 18"�?17 20 wears away 21 actress Arden it Al. 23 pub order 24 bad a poetry 28 Dye indigo 31 in the manner of 32 begin again. 34 supplement 35 cozy Retreat 37 having turned Down pages 39 Diamond girl 41 electric a Catfish. 42 City desk. 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