European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 9, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 18 Ann Landers the  stripes. Saturday february 9,1991today�?Ts crossword dear Ann Landers four years ago i had to discipline my son. From that came a lengthy discussion about our father son relation ship. When the boy told me that he did not feel i always treated him fairly 1 asked him to sit Down and write out what he thought were the most important attributes of a Good father. To my Surprise he was gone less than 10 minutes and returned with this list. Over the past four years i have looked it Over several times and Felt that for a lad in the 10th Grade he showed a. Great Deal of insight. In a sending it to you Ann because i now realize that it was the turning Point in our. Relationship. If you think it May have value for others please feel free to run it in your column. An . In Atlanta . A for loth grader i would say your son showed extraordinary maturity. Thanks for sending it on. I am pleased to share it with my readers. Attributes Ofa Good father 1. Listen to both sides of an argument and respect the opinions of the other person. 2. Accept the fact that every child does no to have to be �?onormal.�?�. 3. Done to always judge by actions. Consider the to  4. Work to increase strengths Nice relationship As Well As improve the weaknesses. 5. Done to be Overly protective. 6. Consider the harshness of the punishment As com a a paced Witlip the seriousness of the  7. Recognize that i want to be treated like an adult. Dear Abby dear Abby just a Short time ago a. Little 6-year-old Vancouver wash., boy lost his life because he got off his school bus on a Windy Day with his papers in pne hand. As he stepped off the bus his papers blew in front of the bus and when he went to retrieve his papers the bus rim Over him killing him instantly i know this Isnit the first time something like this has happened and its not going to be the last unless parents and teachers work together to Correct the problem. I realize that children Are already being taught about bus safety but what about prevention. I think it should be mandatory for All schoolchildren from kindergarten through third Grade to have a Backpack and at the end of the Day their teachers should a a remind them to put All their papers into their backpacks and zip them securely. If that were Standard practice 1 doubt if there would be so Many Young lives lost. I Hope this letter encourages parents of Young students to buy backpacks for them so that they can enjoy those a very important papers their children worked so hard on. Those backpacks will prevent the papers from being lost a and they will also ensure that fewer Par cats will be making those dreadful funeral arrangements. A a a a a a a a a a a a. A a a a a a a. A a Carrie in Oregon City Ore. Dear Carrie my Heartfelt sympathy to the parents of the Little boy quibble 5adoam Rosseel save that Al troops Wafic  a escort uk6 Thunder Rte Smi that ipad 0 will p8euail Moitt a glm a to i 1 1. A a a a a a a. A a a 8. Emphasize my Good Points instead old Welling on theban. A a 9. Done to push a child into doing things he does no to want to do simply because the father would like to do them himself. 10. Realize not everyone has the  and the same ideas of what a important. Dear Ann Landers since you once did a column on broken zippers i thought id Send this in. Its different to say the least. In june of last year Kansas City a own Tom wats Dri pro golfer was hosting his annual celebrity Golf tournament. He usually has three guest pro  hold a press conference and then play 18 holes for Chanty. This years guests were Arnold Palmer Chi Chi Rodriguez and Tom Kite during , Toms Zipper broke. Need i Tell you he was mighty embarrassed but. Kept his Cool like the gentleman that he is. He calmly asked if any of the ladies in the gallery had safety pins. Within minutes several safety pins were volunteered Tom closed his Fly and he went on to play the 18 holes with perfect ease like the pro that he is. Kitty from Kansas City dear Kitty Tom Watson always has been a class act. I thought it pretty nifty the Way he resigned from the Kansas City country club in december when it failed to admit Henry Bloch who would have been the first jewish member. Watson a resignation forced the club to re think its policy Bloch has reapplied for membership and been accepted into the dub. A. V creators Syndicate a who died in that tragic school bus Accident in Zaniou ver. Wash. I think your suggestion that children keep their belongings in backpacks leaving their hands free for balance to prevent Falls As Well As getting their Homework Home intact is excellent and i am Quot sure Many parents will thank you for it. Dear Aby i live next door to. Neighbors who constantly and consistently dispose of their Garhard in plastic bags Days before garbage pickup Well rats tear open the bags and carry their findings up underneath my Back porch and in front of my Gat because of the smell and the trashy mess i am cleaning sweeping Etc. Constantly in front of my Gate As Well As theirs disposing of the trash in plastic bags and putting it in garbage cans. I need help. What  do talking to my neighbors would be a waste of time. My worst fear is to have rats in my apartment. It has been very hard so far to control the mice a a a a a a. A a a a. A. A. A a . In Baltimore dear . 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