European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 13, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 18 a a a the stars and Stripe Sann Landers dear Ann Landers in a not sure what my next move should be. I accidentally discovered my 15-year-old daughters diary and i know i have read it but 1 did. If what she has written is True a a Melanie is dangerously close to becoming sexually Active. I am concerned that she May get into trouble. According to her diary she a almost does it with Guys she has just met. We be had some Frank discussions about sex. She says she has never let a boy put his hands where they done to belong. I am also bothered by the Way she leaves notes lying around addressed to her Best Girlfriend. She writes about How she got drunk does no to remember what she did and Hopes she Isnit pregnant she also describes How she was caught shoplifting taken to jail and booked. I know this is not True. My husband is As puzzled As i am. And we done to know what approach to take. Quot Melanie participates in Church activities and does All right in school but does not measure up to her potential according to her teachers. She is Active in sports a willing worker and helpful around the House. Melanie has Many friends both girls and boys who phone and come to our Home what is this girl trying to prove is she writing things in her diary and composing notes that Ace pure fantasy ? i am puzzled and worried. Perplexed Mother in Minneapolis. Dear Mother it is obvious that Melanie is trying to get your a Teri a Tion. The notes she leaves around the House Are a Clear signal. You need to spend More time with your daughter and listen to her. Also her tendency to embellish reality dear Abby dear readers Don t Tell me that tomorrow is St. Valentine s Day already a we just finished with Christmas. Well it is so be a sweetheart and Call someone and say a Chi i love make two or three Calls who said you can t love More to an one person in different ways of course. Be a sweetheart and go through your closets and part with All those clothes you be been saving until you lose 10 pounds. Your favorite Charity can turn those Good As new garments into a sweetheart and Call someone who a lonely and say a a in a thinking about or better yet say a a in la be Over tomorrow and take you to lunch run some errands or give you a arrange a Date for some Nice person who does t get Many. Be a sweetheart and forgive an enemy quit smoking count your calories return that Book and everything else you be borrowed. Update your will donate your eyes your kidneys and All usable organs Tor someone who can use them after you re gone. Spay your dog neuter your cat toss some bread crumbs out for the Birds pay your doctor and your dentist. If you can t pay All Ofa Bill pay part of it to show Good Faith. Hug your teen Ager listen to a bore vow to separate your trash and Recycle your paper if you re not already doing it. Promise yourself to drive carefully and if you re walking thank god you re Able to and watch where wednesday february 13,1991 suggests that she needs counselling. Make an appointment for her soon. Dear Ann Landers As a recovering alcoholic my awareness of a a social drinking and alcoholism has been intensified. I have noticed a frequent practice in newspapers that in my today a crossword opinion helps to promote this destructive disease. To illustrate my Point i have enclosed several newspaper clippings of prominent persons attending various social functions. These people Are All Well dressed attractive and smiling a and they Are hol Diing drinks. I believe there is a Strong subliminal message in these photos. They glamorize drinking and identify it with pleasure social status and Success. These photos Are similar to the ads that link certain cigarette brands with Beautiful women Tennis players or rugged cowboys in a the great outdoors. I Hope my letter will be printed and seen by those who arc in a position to discontinue this glorification of am referring to socially responsible newspaper editors who cart make it a policy not to use such photos in their papers. Also the people who attend these functions could help by voluntarily setting aside their drinks before being photographed. We must Stop promoting drinking As part of the a getting to the top syndrome. What do you think . In Renton Wash . 1 agree with the subliminal message theory but some of those glasses Are filled with diet cola and soda water. Mine for example nevertheless before taking the picture a competent experienced photographer sees to it that his or her subjects put Down their drinks. ,. C creators Syndicate letters to Ann Landers May be addressed in care of the stars and stripes Apo new York 09211, and they will be forwarded to her. You re going. Pray for the safety of All our men and women who Are serving their country in All four Corners of the world. And Pray for their families at Home who Are doing without them. And Don t wait until next St. Valentines Day to be a sweetheart again. Love Abby dear Abby i am very much in love with a wonderful Man and we Are talking about getting married. We Are both mature people and have been on several trips together so we Are not exactly strangers a ahem i think you get my Drift. The arc is one problem i find it impossible to sleep in the same bed with him. I am a very Light Sleeper and need my full eight hours sleep. But this Man is not Only a scorer he constantly tosses and turns and he talks in his sleep the idea of separate Beds has entered my mind but it is not a possibility for me because i love to fall asleep in his arms. Is there a solution to this problem. 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