European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - March 14, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 14 Ann Landers the stars and stripes dear Ann Landers / either this is the worlds greatest love Story or i am the worlds biggest fool. You decide. Thirty years ago i gave birth to a daughter. A a Harvey did no to marry me because he afford it and his family did no to think i was the right one for him. I had my daughter alone arid paid the Hospital Bill. I have always worked at minimum wage jobs because i was Only 17 when my child was born and i had no education beyond High school ,. A meanwhile i stayed in the shadows and watched the father of my daughter Date and marry the a a rights girl. In the past 30 years this is what has happened 1.1 raised my daughter by myself. 2. Harvey had two daughters. His wife never worked outside the Home although they always had full time household help. /. 3. My daughter is Beautiful talented and Well liked by people of All Ages. 4. Harvey a daughters Are unmotivated and unattractive and they have been in a lot of trouble. 5. My daughter was prom Queen in a made Over dress i got from Goodwill. 6. His daughters went to the prom in designer gowns and later that night one of the girls was arrested for Drunken driving7. Harvey a daughters went to expensive schools dropped out a or were kicked out a and Are doing nothing. My daughter went to a state College on a scholarship graduated with High honors arid has a wonderful career As a registered nurse. Ann this Man has never Given me a dime yet he dear Abby dear Abby the letter you published from the office women in conflict Over whether a baby Shower should be Given for an unwed Mother to be revived a Long forgotten memory. In 1962, i was 17 and had just graduated front High school. I had to give up two scholarships to College and take a Job because i was pregnant and unmarried. In those Days most unwed mothers were sent away to have their babies then gave them up for adoption so that no one in the family would be embarrassed. I chose to stay Home and keep my baby. In a sure my parents were embarrassed and disappointed in me. The baby a father and i were immature and a silly quarrel had caused our breakup. I was so depressed that i considered suicide on a daily basis. In my seventh month of pregnancy 30women from my office gave me a baby Shower i can to begin to Tell thursday March 14, 1991 claims that he has always loved me and our child. We have continued to see each other secretly for the past 30 years and he is the Only Man i have Ever been with. You May find this hard to believe but i love him dearly and it hurts when i see the Way his family lives while i struggle to barely make ends meet. A i am 47 now and i done to know what to do. Harvey swears he loves Only me arid its his fault that our lives turned out like this. My daughter does no to know that Harvey is her father and he is pressing Medo Tell her. He says he will never leave his family because they can to take care of themselves. Please advise me. I done to know what to do. A by a a a v a Quot a a Little Rock Ark. Dear Rock do i have this right you had a baby out of Wedlock. The father married someone else and had two daughters. You continued to see him secretly and never went with another Man. V your daughter has done beautifully but his two daughters can to seem to get it together. You be been hiding in the shadows for 30 years and a emr. Wonderful has never Given you a dime although he has pro Vidd a very Nice lifestyle for his family. Now this yellow bellied Lily slivered gutless wonder Pardon me i got tarried away wants you to Tell his daughter that he is her father by All Means Tell her if you done the will one of these Days. Then Tell him that you want a Nice big Check for Back child support plus a permanent place on his this is definitely not a the worlds greatest love Story a but you May Well qualify As the worlds biggest sap for letting this Man use you so shamefully and allowing him to get away with such despicable behaviour. A. A c creators Syndicate ,. You How much it meant to me to have those wonderful women Shower me with their Good wishes and much needed gifts. They literally saved my life and my baby a life. By v Quot a y. A a by by. That Shower turned my life around. After that i was Able to hold my head up. When my son was a year old his father and i got together and were married. Five years later we had another son i worked while my husband finished College and after he graduated i went to College and graduated in 1977. Today our firstborn is married and has a son of his own. Abby when i think of How close i came to ending my life. I shudder. 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