European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - April 5, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Ann Landers dear Ann Landers please give me the definition of an administrative assistant everyone seen is to be so Hung up on this title it s ridiculous. It is my title but it Means nothing to me. Here a Why. A /. A my Boss refuses to use paper tips. He insists on Ceramic mugs when he serves Coffee to business _ a associates during meetings. When guests ask where they can Wasir out the cups he says a just leave it my administrative assistant will clean my Boss will make microwave lunches and a leave the dirty dishes which he also expects me to clean. Sometimes he Calls me from the front office to hand him things that Are within his reach. Ann this makes me so angry i could scream. In a no women a libber and mind if these things occurred occasionally but they happen All the dear Abby dear Abby when i was barely 17 years old 1 went with a very pretty girl who had a reputation for being easy. She wanted me to go All the Way 4 with her and i almost did then she dropped me for a Guy who was More a a mature her words. About three months later on a hot summer night she drove Over to my House in a borrowed car her brother a and took me for a drive. She seemed very glad to see me and said things like a i can to seem to get you out of my we parked by the Lake and she started to kiss me and rub me All Over. She got me real excited and practically Tore my clothes off. I told her i Wasny to prepared for sex so she said a a done to worry in Mon the the whole thing did no to take 10 minutes. It Alt happened so fast i was almost in Shock. We saw each other almost every weekend for about a month and then she told me she was pregnant i m a senior in High school and was in no position to get married but i had to Tell my folks. They got together with her folks and we had a Quick wedding. Well five months later she had a baby. Now i realize she knew she was pregnant when she got me to have sex with her. The baby Wasny to mine but i have to support a a our son until he is 18 because the Law says i am the father. This mess blew my whole future. I got a Job parking cars and have had to forget about College for now. Maybe this letter will keep some other a Guy from being the kind of Jerk i was. Stuck in a Small town dear stuck a. A you and your parents should discuss this with an attorney. Perhaps you Are hot As a a stuck As you think you Are. There Are tests that can prove whether you Are Friday april 5, 1991 time. I be to think of a tactful Way to express my displeasure. I find his behaviour demeaning and inconsiderate. A Quot i work very Long hours to meet unreasonable deadlines in a reliable and competent. I bypass lunch regularly to get More work when Are women going to get a fair shake if i wanted to be a Housew Ife id Stav Home. Sign me fed up in Chicago dear fed i refer you to that old Ann Landers axiom a nobody can take advantage of you without your when the bos first asked you to Wash out the Coffee cups if you did no to feel comfortable doing it you should. Have said so. Now it is expected of you. The same goes of for the lunch press. Pm sure you a be much happier somewhere else. Start looking. And next time get a firm Job description before you sign on. Good Luck. A ,. C creator Syndicate a. A the baby a father. A blood Sample from the baby and another from you is All that a necessary. Dear Abby a a a v. A Quot a i wish you would print this for All fat wives to see do All you fat wives who have gained a lot of weight since your marriage believe your husbands when they say a a it Sok Honey there a just that much More of you to love v a a when Hubby a Eye begins to wander you can bet its not toward another fat woman its toward a Gal with a trim figure. Women done to let yourselves go i did and nearly lost my husband. Thank heavens i woke up just in fat Phyllis dear formerly fat Why limit the suggestion to women Only plenty of fat men have gone under for the third time while their wives were eyeing the lifeguard. Dear Abby Why All the fuss about being addressed by ones first name instead of a mrs. So and so. In biblical times apparently there were no last names a and if Matthew Mark and Luke and Mary Sarah and Ruth were Good enough then its certainly Good enough for me now. Also today with so Many women in executive positions in a sure they Are All on a first name basis with their co workers. Tome it just seems friendlier. Trudy in Indiana dear Trudy / most a but not All business and professional women like men have no objection to being addressed by their first names. However it is presumptuous to assume that such familiarity is acceptable to everyone. 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