European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 18, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i hesitate to write to you about this because the questions sound a stupid but i need some advice. In a a 38-year-old Man happily f married for eight years and have two Young daughters. In be been at my Job since 1974, the year after i graduated from College. Its not the biggest business of its kind but its been Good to me and in be become the. Proverbial big fish in a Small Pond. Quot the problem is this Over the years in be run into several College buddies and most of the have done much better financially and career Wise than i have. When i compare my accomplishments to theirs i always come up Short and wind up feeling inferior and depressed. I la be the first to admit that i Haven to been As aggressive As some of the Guys i used to run around with. I should Tell you that in be turned Down a couple of Job offers with better pay in order to stay in this City with my family because we like it Here. I also confess that i Lack self Confidence. I be never attended a College reunion because i feel like a failure around these Guys. I Haven to spoken to the ones who were my closest friends in 15 years because in a ashamed to Tell them in a still at my first Job. To be perfectly honest an 8-year-old car does no to quite Cut the same Swath As a new Bow or Ford Taurus. How can i prove to my old College friends that in a not a loser what can i do to show them in Mok too class of �?T73 dear class of�?T73 since when does having a new Bow or Ford Taurus dear Abby dear Abby about a year and a half ago i moved to a retirement facility in Oregon Ever since i have been swamped with mail order Cata logs unsolicited to the Point that when the mail is delivered each Day there Are More Cata logs delivered than my Mailbox can hold in the past you have from time to time printed an address to which one could write in order to put a Stop to this nuisance. Would you please print it again i am. Knee deep in junk mail dear knee deep not Only do some Catalon companies make Money by Selling their merchandise but they also make a bundle by Selling their customer lists to one another. Therefore once you order anything by Catalon you May find yourself on Many other mailing lists. If you shop at Home but want to Lessen the unsolicited advertising mail you receive simply ask the companies with which you do business not to rent your name to other mailers. Your other option the mail preference service screens out the National advertising mail and should be used by Consumers who do not want to receive such solicitations. To have your name deleted from these lists write to mail preference service direct marketing As saturday May 18, 1991 and a sizable Bank account make a Man a big Success you need to sit Back and take a Good look at your priorities mister. It sounds As if that Quot Small Pond Quot suits you just Fine so Stop looking longingly at the Ocean where life might be much More hazardous and not nearly As rewarding. All that glitters is not Gold. The Guys you Are envying May be envying you. A dear Ann Landers we Are tenants in a Large apartment Complex and have composed a message for the self important abrasive resident managers who need to be set straight. Please print it. A the High rent dwellers dear  Here it is and in a not printing a City. Let Mem guess. Who Are tenant tenants Are the most important people in the rental management business. Tenants Are not dependent on management. Management is dependent on tenants. Tenants Are not an interruption of the manager s work but the purpose of it. Tenants do management a favor by choosing to live in their building. Management Isnit doing the tenants a favor by allowing them to live there. Tenants Are not just a source of Money. They Are the life s blood of management a business and they have the right to be treated with respect. Tenants deserve courteous service. Without tenants managers would have vacant apartments and there would be no Money to pay their salaries. Managers should not forget this. C creators Syndicate Socia Tion inc., . Box 3861, new York . 101633861. There is no charge for this service. Dear Abby i thought id share with you a very poignant Fetter that appeared in the san Francisco chronicle recently. Perhaps you will want to share it with your readers. A . In Hayward Calif. Dear . I think it is Well Worth sharing with my readers. It appeared in the Quot letters to the editor Section. Looking for a Parade can i March in your Parade too i came Back from world War ii after being in five Battles and i done to remember any ticker tape. We were near Japan on Vij Day and did no to get to participate unlike some of the Lucky National guardsmen in the latest Short War. In 1945, we were so jumpy from Kamikaze attacks that we had a general quarters alarm after the japanese surrendered. It. Was very Remote from the Joyful madness i saw displayed in pictures of Market Street. Our ships company had not seen civilization in Over a year and it was another eight months before i was mustered out. Can i be in your Parade now Robert a. Heaton. Lafayette. Calif. 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