European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 21, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Ann Landers dear Ann Landers 1 have been happily married for j 21 years. I love my husband dearly but for the first time in our marriage we have an Issue we cannot i resolve. I recently took a class and became Friendly with a single Man age 35. I m 44. After the class was Over we wanted to continue i the Friendship so occasionally we l meet for lunch or a movie when i am in his area on j business. He lives 70 Miles away. He tells me about his i dates and we catch up on what a new in each other s lives. Then we go our separate ways. I naturally told my husband about this. It is just a Friendship no sex. My husband has not spoken to me for three Days because i saw this Man last week. I be had male friends in the past and nothing Ever went beyond Friendship. My husband knows that i would never go to bed with another Man but he resents the fact that i have lunch and see an occasional movie with this one. He says a i simply cannot accept i see it As his desire to control me. He disagrees. Meanwhile my Friend is annoyed that my husband is so angry. We both want to continue the Friendship. Frozen out in Maine dear Frozen obviously your husband feels threatened by this Man. There is something about the relationship that bothers him. If your marriage is important to you you ought to give some thought to a Compromise. How about double dating with the Man and one of the women he is taking out surely the four of you could have a pleasant time together and your husband tuesday May 21, 1991 the stars and stripes today a crossword Page 19 dear Abby dear Abby last weekend my wife a former College Roommate a Kathy a came to visit my wife and me. We had not seen her since 1986. She had sent a Christmas card which we followed up with a phone Call inviting her for a weekend. She lives two hours away and accepted immediately a then she called Back and asked if she could bring her new Boyfriend. Well,.we thought a any Boyfriend of Kathy a would be As delightful As right wrong Kathy a Boyfriend ill Call him Chuck turned out to be the most overbearing crude obnoxious know it All we had Ever met. He was argumentative loud and just Plain rude. We bit our tongues the entire weekend to keep from telling him where to go 1 he problem is that Kathy seems to like this Guy and she indicated that she and Chuck would be Back regularly for weekend visits she also suggested that we take a vacation trip with them. So How do we go about telling Kathy that we think Chuck is a first class Jerk and she deserves better or should we keep quiet and Hope she sees the Light and dumps this rude dude. Stumped would have no cause to be suspicious. I recommend it. Dear readers As our population Ages More people Are retiring _ with time on their hands Energy to spare and the desire to give something Back to their communities. Here is a Book that is nicely priced and genuinely useful. The title a spices of life the Well being handbook for older americans by rut it fort and associates. It is tilled with excellent ideas and tells you where to go for help How to get involved and How to get information on any number of subjects. A writ Cdo a spices of life a . Box 19367, Washington . 20036. The Price $8, including postage and handling. A a a a a a. A a a dear Ann Landers almost free in Iowa the Mother of two who wrote that she is on welfare but trying to find her Way into the work Force is certainly living in the right state project Promise in Iowa offers welfare recipients he Job training or education they need to be employable. A so they have Access to Job counselling and placement As Well As child care. Project Promise offers transitional medical benefits As Well. 1 he costs to the state i m pleased to report Are less than maintaining a family on welfare. But most importantly it is an excellent investment in our most precious resource a people. Sincerely it. Gov. Joy Corning of Iowa dear it. Gov. Corning thanks for writing. Helping people to be self Sifri client is infinitely More sensible than keeping them on welfare. Your letter makes me proud to be from Iowa. C creators Syndicate inc. A dear stumped be honest. If Kathy asks you what you think of Chuck Don t offer phony Praise to keep from hurting her feelings. Tell her now not to include you in any vacations with her and Chuck because you Don t enjoy his company that much. She May be offended but it might inspire her to take a harder look at her new Boyfriend and cause her to Chuck Chuck. Dear Abby a Browbeaten in Pompano a ache wrote that he retired at age 62 then he went on to say a five years later my wife of 55 years applied for her social Security Abby if he retired at 62, five years later lie was 67. And if they were married for 55 years lie would have been 12 years old when he got married. . Dear . In order for it to make sense that sentence should have read a seven years later my wife who was 55 when i retired applied for her social Security at 62.�?� wait it gets worse. In my reply i say a after 55 years of togetherness etc.,�?� indicating that i too assumed they had been married for 55 years which would have indeed made the husband 12 years old at the time of his marriage. The mathematics escaped me entirely. I plead guilty As charged. I la take 10 whacks with a fifth Grade math Book and another 10 with a Book on logic. C a Versal press Syndicate across 1 amusing fellow. 5 a Nana 8 double agent 12 he loved. An Irish a Rose 13 film Container 14 Stratford s. River 15 Singer. 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