European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 30, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 14 a the stars and stripes , thursday May 30, 1991 Ann Landers today a crossword dear Ann Landers its wet Noodle time. I can to believe you said that waitress deserved a Good tip for a a excellent service. Why in the world should a Glen Cove  leave any kind of tip to a waitress who was hitting on her dinner companion would you advise a Man to tips a waiter who was making a play for his Girlfriend your correspondent got shortchanged. Terr from Royal Oak Mich. Dear Terry you Arentt the Only one who thought my response to that letter was a Turkey. Read Oil dear Ann Landers serving a dinner in a Nice restaurant Means More than just bringing the food out of the Kitchen and placing it in front of the Patron. That waitress ignored a Glen Quot and fawned Over her escort of course the waitress had no Way of knowing that the woman was picking up the Tab. But that a not the Point. The service Glen got was Lousy while the waitress was extremely attentive to her gentlemen Friend. You done to Reward that kind of nonsense with a 20 percent tip. 1 would have left her a dime. Marion Grosse Point farms Mich. Dear Marion 1 could til i the Page with complaints 1 received about my advice on that one. To All who wrote i would like to say you Are right. My reply was dumb and i am ashamed of myself. Dear Abby dear Ann Landers you performed a great service to your readers when you printed the letter from the Mother of a Kelyse Quot the lying drug addict who conned everybody she knew. Listen to this a Kelyse a or her clone showed up at our door last october. She said she was visiting in Montreal staying with her grandmother who lived Down the Street in the next Block of apartments. The woman told us that her sister was being held at the police station because she had received a traffic ticket for not wearing a seat Belt. The police would not let her out of jail according to a Sis a until she came up with the Bond Money. The woman said her sister had phoned and asked her to bring Down $517 As soon As possible. So she went immediately to the automatic Bank Teller and got $500, which was the limit. Since her grandmother was not at Home and none the immediate neighbors was in she had come to the next Block of apartment buildings to see if she could borrow $17. We were completely sucked in and gave her the Money. She thanked us profusely and promised to return the $17 the following Day. Of course we have not set eyes on the woman since. Josie in Montreal dear Montreal stories like yours make me sad because an experience such As the one you described will understandably sour you on being kind to strangers and in the future you will probably refuse someone who is honorable and decent. C creators Syndicate dear Abby i have recently seen two letters in your column regarding the use of medicines by older people and the problems that medicines May cause especially in the elderly. People should consider themselves a Consumers a not a patients Quot when it comes to health care particularly when it comes to the use of medications. Many older people believe that  stands for minor deity and they done task questions of their doctors or pharmacists when they should. Asking questions Means taking some responsibility for ones own health care it helps to know what to expect from a Medicine. You Are doing a major service to older adults and their care givers by calling attention to this Issue Abby. I Hope this letter is helpful to your readers. _ Madeline Feinberg director elder health program University of Maryland school of pharmacy dear is Eli Niberg since Over medication can be such a serious problem for senior citizens i am sure your letter will be of More than passing interest to Many. Other valuable tips for using medicines Are available free. Send a stamped 29 cents self addressed business sized envelope to information officer school of pharmacy 20 n. Pine st., room 352, Baltimore my. 21201. Dear Abby i am praying that you can give me some guidance. My husband of Many years uses credit cards constantly. He h As no pension and has never believed in life insurance or having a savings account. Social Security is his Only income. I have Learned to lat he owes approximately $8,000. I believe he pays his monthly dues from each of his credit cards in turn. I have no idea How Many cards he holds and i have never signed for any of his credit cards. A a a we each have our own checking accounts at different Banks. I am forced to work full time because of the Many times 1 have had to come to his financial Aid. He is now past 80. I am 69. My concern is that in the event that he should die before i do would i be held responsible for his debts worried in California dear worried because you Are living in a Community property state you Are indeed responsible for your husbands debts if he predeceased you. You would be Wise to consult an attorney., a c a moral press Syndicate a quibble of est it sort tar vol that tilth All that i5 wait Goi voor Fotonee is so Ort certain ? Dayou hear that this kid wants to _ kn0u what the army is goin6 to do to with him.1 where ism &0incv�?swrat jo6 1. Rub hair Dye. Into hair. V f /  2, rinse thoroughly. Across 1 Harry s mrs. 5 Conrad s Quot lord a 8 Rue a paix 12 elliptical 13 Man mouse link 14 bakery employee 15 a West a Story 16 Beer Container 17 or. 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