European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 21, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Ann Landers dear Ann Landers my Boyfriend a Joe Quot has a 9-year-old daughter a Sally a from his first marriage. Saly is a Beautiful Well adjusted child and we get along wonderfully. Although Joe and i have our own places we spend weekends together. We do not sleep together when Sally is with us. We feel it would be improper since we Are not married. A a. A a. Until several months ago Joe was still sleeping with Sally sometimes in a single bed. A Friend and i were Able to convince him that Sully was too old for him to be doing Sally is around Joe will not show me any affection. However when we watch a to movie Joe gets on the Couch with Sally puts his head in her Lap and she will stroke his hair. Or sometimes they will just stretch out intertwining their legs and arms. I believe its perfectly innocent. Yet i am bothered by it. Should i say something to Joe speak up or shut up in Houston dear Houston. A. A. V. -. A for Peters Sake speak up but in a Low key non a judgmental Way. While this father daughter eclat Jon ship docs not sound incestuous it is definitely provocative and unhealthy. Suggest to Joe that he needs the help of a professional to understand How to relate to a Young daughter who dear Abby dear Abby one would think that after 34 years of pastoral experience i would have been prepared but when asked by a professional adult whose fathers funeral 1 had just conducted a what do you charge a a. I answered a nothing a a the reply 1 received was a if you will give me the name and address of your Church i will Send a Check in your should have said a nothing but i am accustomed to receiving an honorarium a a especially from non Church and i could have added a today is my third trip to this City totalling 240 Miles. At a Mere 20 cents per mile that would be almost $50 for expenses alone a not including the six to eight hours spent in travel and last month 1 was asked to conduct a funeral for a non Church member who lived in our Community 1 received an honorarium of $100, which was greatly App re dated and set aside for a future majority of pastors Are underpaid and taken for granted. My wife reminded me of the time i was paid $10 for a wedding with the suggestion that i split it with the Georgia pastor Friday june 21. 1991 will soon be entering puberty. Explain that divorced fathers often have this problem because they feel guilty about the divorce and become too eager in their efforts to establish a Loving relationship on a part time basis i suggest that you offer to line up the Counselor for Joe and the sooner the better. I see trouble ahead. Dear Ann Landers. My husband has been offered a terrific promotion that Means More Money and prestige. The area has great weather and Fine schools but i Feci guilty about moving 3,000 Miles from my parents. They Aren t elderly Are in Good health and Are Active in Community affairs. A. A a. A ,. A a. V / a i really want to go but 1 am afraid to disappoint my folks. My brother moved away and mom is still crushed. When a Bud Quot moved she said a the put his own interest ahead of family. You a never do that to this is creating friction Between me and my husband. What s your advice. Midwest woe dear Midwest your husband should accept the promotion immediately and you ought to do everything possible to support that decision. A in a sorry that your Mother has made you Feci guilty about leaving a woman marries her first obligation is to her husband and the same goes for him. The Bible says it Best in genesis 2 24 a therefore shall a Man leave his father and his Mother and shall Cleave unto his wife and they shall be one Start packing and Good Luck a a. A a a c creators Syndicate a a a a a a a the stars and stripes page.19 crossword dear pastor perhaps your letter will remind readers who require the services of a clergy member that Hoover is no longer in the White mouse and the clergy person should be appropriately compensated for his or her automobile use gasoline dry cleaning haircut a not to mention the Effort and the time spent in preparing and delivering the service. A. Dear Abby my daughter and her husband Are separated. The or children a an 8-year-old daughter and 11-year-old son a spend one weekend witly their father and the next with their mom. When they arc at their fathers both children sleep same double bed with him. I told him that this was a bad idea. His reaction to my protestations was a Well its not As though i sleep in the nude a i always Wear shorts Quot Abby both children arc developing rapidly and our whole family is concerned about this sleeping arrangement. 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