European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 26, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Wednesday june 26, 1991 the stars and stripes a. Pago 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i have noticed that Over the ears Quot you have discussed the topic of homosexuality with an open mind. I also know that Many of your readers Are sick and tired of hearing about discrimination against Quot Gays a. Quot i too am fed up with listening to them whine about the prejudice they face because of their sexual preference. Before you Call me a Homo Phobe let me Tell you that i am Gay. I am writing to offer a Little advice to the Young person who is contemplating coming out of the closet. The biggest mistake 1 Ever made was to Tell my Par edits i am a homosexual. They accepted it at first or pretended to but As time went on my confession caused so much trouble that i wish 1 had left Well enough alone. . 1 am absolutely convinced that parents have a sixth sense about their child. They know the truth without having it spelled out for them. When they Are suddenly confronted with deeply disturbing information they Quot done to want to Deal with it is sure to Lead to trouble. They Are then forced to accept that child and what he or she really is which Means they must condone homosexual behaviour. That is when the trouble begins. A -. Quot a / a a today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby my husband and 1 adopted a Beautiful Little boy two years ago. He was 2 years old when we got him. We waited for 2vz years to get him and when the Agency called us to say we could come and get him 1 was so thrilled i shared the Good news with my co workers. I worked in an office with 13 other women. In the three years that 1 worked there i attended six baby showers and gave one in my Home. ,. Abby i cannot Tell you How heartbroken 1 was when no one from the office even called to ask How things were going. No Shower no gifts a not even a card. I did however receive Many questions about Niy songs birth parents. Did i Ever meet them were they married How Oldy Vas his Mother does he have any Sisters or Brothers i since have moved on to a new Job because i Felt so much resent meat toward my. Co workers. 1 w As invited to two More. Baby showers before i  Abby please remind people to treat everyone a new child the same a adopted or not. It would mean so much to the new parents. I just had to get this Oft my Chest. Thank you for listening. Brokenhearted with a terrific son dear brokenhearted there is no defense for the attitude of your former co workers but in a printing your letter because it carries a very important message an adopted child deserves the same celebrated Welcome As a birth child. Dear Abby. I am a female working for a Cable television Compa Sophy did i Tell my parents 1 done to know.  preferences of my five siblings was never mentioned so. Why should mine be sex should be a pin ate matter not discussed with relatives whether of Aie Gay or straight. I have never been discriminated against at work or anywhere  its because 1 Don t March in parades make speeches or dress in a by aide fashion that would draw attention to myself. Of i said it and now the Gay rights groups can slap me around. They w ill Calls me a cow Ard say i am totally crazy and insist that i do not speak for the majority. So be Iti and speaking for myself.,. My advice to All Gays is this keep our Mouth shut. Live your life and done to try to justify what you Are.  people accept it and. To hell with the rest. Frankly. I am a. Sic k and tired of hearing Aboul it. A Montana dear Montana. A. / a. Nut All Gays will agree with what you have written. Moreover some parents of Gays Are extremely supportive of their children. For those who Arentt Antiworld like to be i recommend that you Send $2 and a Long self addressed stamped envelope to parents . Parents and friends of lesbians and . Box 27605, Washington . 20038-7605. They will Send you a packet of information. A c Cro Alors Syndicate Quot by As a computer operator. Lately every morning when i sign in on the computer. Hind suggestive messages of a sexual nature trom the Man on the night shift i take Over  message a Darling. 1 dreamed about you last night. He also had Flowers delivered to me at work on Valentine s Day. 1 am a. Single Mother and this is starting to get out of hand. I am dating another Man and have no interest in this co worker. Should i. Report him to my supervisor harassed a Denver dear harassed before you report him to your supervisor Tell the Pushy pest that you Are not interested in his Flowers or his fantasies. And if lie annoys you further report him. A dear Abby / a ,. To please help me. My desk at work is 10 Leel away irom a person who whistles constantly i get so irritated that i cannot concentrate on the task at hand. This is begin Nim to have a great effect on my work and i done to like it. The problem is that this person is my Boss and i done to want to run the risk of seeming insubordinate. On the other hand if this whistling does not Stop i will go crazy. What should i Dosoon to be bonkers dear soon your Job can to possibly be More important to you than your sanity so Tell your Boss that you can to concentrate on your work while a a someone is whistling. And if your Boss continues to drive you bonkers with his her whistling repeat the message unless of course. You done to mind going bonkers. . C Universal press Syndicate. Across 1 Ninny a 4 River in Brazil 7 mine Entrance 8 growing out 10 a a a door 1937 movie 11 powerful 13 Culm at ing Point 16 peer by nth smother 17 coast or tower18 deface 19 Small a piece 20 actress Olin 21 brutal hoodlums 23 took part in a Bee 25 destroy 26 Colt s mom 27 new England. Cape. 28 Book part 30 feathery 4. 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