European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 17, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i am writing regarding the letter from a unsure in Newark who wants to know if she should marry a Pearl a who still lives with Momma. Your answer was not emphatic enough. Tell the woman to get away from that Man As fast As she can. If she marries Earl his Mother will dominate her life and make her miserable. Mom will always the no. 1, even if she does t live in the same House or the same town. I know. My Mother in Law has a four bedroom two Bath House. We have a two bedroom one Bath House. We keep up her House payments taxes and insurance. We pay All her extra Bills because a she can to make ends i work full time to keep our Heads above water but whenever Mother needs More Money her son sees that she gets it. When i run Short he tells me i should manage better. I get so mad 1 could scream. I know there Are a lot of wonderful mothers in Law out there but the others can sure make life hell. Please Ann Tell a a unsure to break the engagement and look for someone who will a leave father and Mother a As instructed in the Bible and will make her his first priority. Voice of experience in Lubbock dear voice i hear you ipod and Clear and i Hope Newark does too. Read on dear Ann Landers my advice to a unsure in Newark is get out As fast dear Abby dear Abby i have a wonderful husband. A a George and i have been married for 16 years. Last summer George was going through a midlife crisis and began shutting me out and spending most of his time at work. A Young woman a 10 years his Junior married and temporarily separated from her husband a began buying George lunch complaining that she was unhappy at Home her husband was a poor Lover Etc. She started praising my husband and feeding his ego. Then one Day she told him that her car was in the shop and she needed a ride Home so he drove her Home and she invited him in a to she asked George to kiss her. He did and before he knew it they were in bed. In the Middle of the act George said he realized that he was in the wrong place with the wrong woman so he got out of bed took a Shower and came Home to me. This was his version he confessed begged for my forgiveness and we prayed together. He said it was the worst sexual experience he Ever had a he did no to even Complete the act. George went to confession and told the priest everything. The priest said that technically George did not commit adultery because he did not Complete the phys wednesday july 17, 1991 As you can. You Are exactly where i was 30 years ago. I married my a a Early and things went from bad to worse. Our problem was not Money it was emotional support. No matter what i did it had to have his Mother s approval. When we had our second son 1 was made to feel like a failure for not having a daughter. Every gift i gave my Mother in Law was returned to the store. Her Telephone Calls never failed to include a Subtle but snide remark i sought counselling but without my husband s emotional support it did Little Good. My Mother in Law died three years ago and i feel As if i m living with her ghost. My husband was never allowed to show anger while she was alive so now he is making up for lost time. He becomes violent Over the slightest thing and the violence is directed toward me even though i had nothing to do with the provocation. The worst part is that our grown sons Are now imitating their fathers angry behaviour toward me. I once complained that their radios were too loud and they threatened to Burn the House Down. When i finally told my husband i d had enough and wanted a divorce he had a nervous breakdown and had to go to a psychiatric Hospital for treatment. He now sees a Counselor regularly. Our lives Are a lot better but i Hope i live Long enough to enjoy some Good times after All the misery in be had. Newark should stay away from this mom dominated Man. I wish someone had opened my eyes years ago. I love my husband dearly but i wish my life on my worst enemy. Tell Newark i said so. A my time is coming in fort Lauderdale ical act. Is this True i want to believe him. Georges wife dear wife adultery in traditional Catholic theology does not depend on the completion of the physical act. A a. Anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his Matthew 5 28. 1 Georges a midlife crisis is a cry for help and his lapse of faithfulness is a symptom of an ailing marriage. But since he has been a faithful husband for 16 years you should be less concerned about the biblical definition o adultery and More concerned about the state of your marriage. You could both Benefit from counselling. Forgive him unconditionally and he will remain in the right place with the right woman and your next 16 years should be even More wonderful than your first. 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