European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - August 5, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i have something to say to that 44-year-old woman in Maine who is having a a platonic relationship with a 35-year-old Man and to her husband of 21 years who does no to like it. She says there is nothing sexual involved a they just have lunch together and maybe see a movie every few weeks. This sounds so much like what happened to my wife and me that i was stunned. Even the Ages were right on the Button. That a a dynamite situation Ann. Please Tell that woman a husband that if he values his marriage he should order his wife to Knock off those lunches and movies. Married women done to no name in Santa be dear Santa Maine a letter hit a hot Button the likes of which i Haven to seen in Ages. It also pulled in five times As Many responses from men As women. Want to pull up a chair and look Over my shoulder from Louisville i have a simple solution for the woman whose husband resents her dating a Guy she met in class. She a Nice girl nine years his Junior for him to Date. It will take his mind off her social life. When he comes Home smiling after his nose dates she will feel Good about herself. Jump. Louisiana i am an adult who is free to have lunch with any Friend i choose regardless of age sex race Creed or marital status. Maine a husband needs to grow up. Married not chained Long Island my husband has a female Friend a a woman with whom he works every Day acid some weekends. I Trust him and am sure nothing sexual is going of but i do feel threatened by that woman and find their Friendship hard to accept. I m sure he dear Abby dear Abby your readers Are sending in their crazy wedding night stories so Here sours when Rick and i married . 14,1985, we had Only a weekend to honeymoon so we took my aunts advice and rented a Condo on the Beach in Rosarito Mexico. After the wedding we made the two hour drive arriving at the gated Entrance after dark. We asked the Spanish speaking guard to direct us to our rented unit showing him the Street address. Upon finding our Condo we could not imagine Why the key Wasny to in. The potted Plant by the door where the owner promised it would be. Also my aunt had told us that the unit was right on the Beach a this one was across the Street. Finally. Rick climbed the Balcony and entered the Condo through the sliding Glass door then monday August 5, 1991 stand for it if i had the same kind of Friendship going with a Man. Quot a a san Francisco i too had a a a platonic Friendship with a Man who lived next door and it damned near wrecked both his marriage and mine. It started out very innocently but we ended up in a Motel room. Those two ought to Stop and ask themselves if what they Are getting out of the relationship is Worth the risks they Are taking. . Scranton a my wife also had an a innocent Fricht ship with a Man. We were married for 27 years. Tell a a Maine if her husband does no to like it and she sees the Guy anyway she must like the Guy a lot and will end up in bed with him. When that happens the marriage is doomed. A a. Geralds. Berwick Maine a genuinely Loving relationship is one in which both parties have full Freedom and Independence a no questions asked. To deny one s partner Access to love in any of its myriad forms is to deny that individual person Hood. D v d. Charleston a a a married woman who is playing it straight does no to have lunches and go to the movies with other men. Gimme a break. Al r. Washington . That letter from Maine could have been written by my sex wife. She too had a a a nose Friendship with a Man. I bought it until she turned up pregnant. I had had a Vasectomy a few years earlier. End of Story. . Pittsburgh Here a a suggestion for the husband of that woman in Maine gel one of those magazines that has personal ads and find one that says a attractive unattached woman looking for older Jan who enjoys quiet walks in the Woods Long chats and just Plain that la Settle her hash in a hurry. Joe b. C creators Syndicate inc. He opened the front door for me. We had brought along groceries and even logs for the fireplace so we made a delicious dinner and built a romantic fire in the fireplace. It was a perfect wedding night. The next morning 1 decided to go outside and try to find the key. When i looked on the Wall above the potted Plant i saw a Ceramic plaque with the Condo s full address a a completely different Street name than the Condo we had reserved i done to think i have Ever washed dishes faster than i did that morning we made the bed cleaned up the place and ran out the door As fast As we could a scared to death but laughing hysterically. We drove As fast As we could to the right Condo a just a few blocks Down the Street. We never did find out who owned that first Condo but if the owners happen to see this in print a thank you and we Are sorry a Krista and Rick Roberio san Clemente Calif. C Universal press Syndicate the stars and Stripe today s crossword Page 19 across a 1 Garden plot 4 Hillside dugouts 9 unmanned hide 12 Corrida cheer. 13 hag 14 food fish 15 Large poisonous Snake 17 society Page word 18 thousands of years 19 wild ass 21 los Angeles team 24 dross on molten Metal 25 boxing. Champ 26 comedian Deluise 28 French states 31 attend to 33 oct. 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