European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 14, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday september 14, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers this is for the Man who feels inferior and depressed after comparing himself with College classmates who have done so much better in life a financially that is. In a reminded of the Story about two women who saw each other at their 25th College reunion for the first time since they had left school. First woman Marjorie its wonderful to see you again. You look terrific. How has life been treating you Marjorie things  be better. My husband Tom has made a huge Success of his fathers Small business. He has opened five Branch offices a one in Tokyo. Tom was named a Man of the year a by the chamber of Commerce. He a going to be president of the chamber in the Spring. First woman that a fantastic. Marjorie i m very Active in Volunteer work which i love. In be been president of the Junior league three years in a Row. No one will run against me. It seems they wont let me go. This May turn out to be a lifetime Job first woman fantastic. Marjorie our daughter Julie was named most Likely to succeed in the senior class at the University. She was also elected president of her sorority. First woman fantastic. Marjorie but what about you dear what have you been up to lately first woman my life is not As exciting As yours but i just finished an interesting course in Charm school. Marjorie Charm school that a fascinating what did you learn there today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby our daughter was married yesterday after some whirlwind planning in which we used your wedding planning Book. A question has Arisen that was not addressed in the Book Many guests brought their gifts to the reception. When the gifts were collected to be taken Home the Ushers handed the brides father a stack of envelopes that had been on the gift table. We have no idea whether these envelopes Are gifts themselves or became separated from their packages. When the newlyweds return from their honeymoon in three weeks they will have a massive Job of unwrapping. What do they do if they find several unidentified packages and assorted cards How do they match them up to be sure they thank the right guests for the right gifts Barbara k., Kenilworth ill. Dear Barbara when the Bride returns she will open the envelopes. Some will probably contain a the gift Money and those envelopes that became separated from the gifts will lets Hope contain cards signed with first and last names. Write thank you notes to those you match up with gifts. And Telephone or write to the others Tell them that their card and gift became separated then ask first woman they taught us to say a a fantastic instead of  p.b., Prairie Village Kan. Dear Ann Landers 1 thought you and your readers would enjoy a True Story about a genuinely Good person and his generous deed. My wife and i were visiting Philadelphia recently. On our last Day there someone picked my pocket. The thief took my Wallet which contained quite a lot of Money credit cards and my Driver s License. We made arrangements to have Money sent to us so we could get Home. When we went to the parking lot to pick up our rental car i had to explain to the attendant that i did t have the claim Check because my Wallet had been stolen. A gentleman standing nearby overheard the conversation handed me a $20 Bill and said a please take  i thanked him and explained that my wife had a few dollars in her handbag and that we had already made arrangements to get the necessary Cash. He insisted however that we should have an extra $20. When i asked him for his name and address so i could return the Money he said a it s a gift. Please let me do  then he left. We decided then and there that Philadelphia deserves its name a the City of brotherly love. Quot yours very truly Robert Belknap la Verne Calif. Dear Robert what a Sweet Story. More evidence that even though the world seems to have become a dangerous and untidy place there Are still plenty of kind and generous people around. Thanks for writing. C creators Syndicate them which gift was theirs. Embarrassing yes. But that a the Price one pays when such accidents occur. There ought to be a Law against hand carrying gifts to weddings. It imposes a Burden on the brides parents who must take the gifts Home and store them until the newlyweds return. Wedding gifts should be sent directly to the Bride in plenty of time for her to open them and make a record of the gift and the giver so the giver can be properly thanked. Dear Abby i am writing this in regard to your column titled a obituary relating to cause of death adds to family a  circumstances can sometimes dictate just the opposite. My Lovely 19-year-old granddaughter who lived in another town was killed in a car Accident just three Days after her High school graduation a a few months ago. When we were making the funeral arrangements we asked the funeral director to state the cause of death in her obituary. We Are Well known in this Community and we wished to be spared the numerous Telephone Calls asking about the cause of her sudden death. The funeral director unfortunately neglected to follow through on our request and consequently we were plagued with Calls which added much to our grief every time we had to relate the circumstances of her death. Grieving Illinois grandma c Universal press Syndicate across 1 ships crans 6gotab 12 not him neighbor 13 chats 14 suggesting o. Henry 15 California grinder 16 Kelly or Tunney 17 summer desserts 19 Hostel 20 information 22 Fellows 24 decks for a ten count 27 Florida a neighbor 29 bit for Fermi 32 asking a question 35 mrs. 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