European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 26, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Thursday september 26, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 15 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers please print this response to a class of �?T73�?� who Felt inadequate when he compared his Success with that of his College classmates. My husband is probably one of the Guys he admires. We have moved six times in 10 years always for a better paying More prestigious Job. Each move requires establishing new friendships and becoming part of the Community. I dream of staying in one place Long enough for my children to develop ongoing relationships but 1 know it will never happen. We drive the Bow that a class of �?T73�?� admires As a status Symbol. Actually we have two. Sounds wonderful not really. What i  give for a husband who is satisfied with his Job his salary and the City we live in. My husbands Lucky that i am committed to keeping our family life Strong and Loving. Some Days i feel like throwing in the Towel. I envy your wife or.  �?T73.�?� k.b., an town . Dear an town what a poignant letter. A great Many readers also were moved and eager to Tell their stories. Read on dear Ann Landers i could identify with a class of 73.�?� in be worked for today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby i have read so much about divorced parents creating problems at their kids weddings that i had to write and let you know what happened at mine. My parents divorced when i was 2 years old. For years i heard Mother and dad bad Mouth each other. And i went for years without seeing my father because of their dislike for each other. Then when i was in my Early teens my parents started mending fences and i got to know my father better. 1 soon realized that dad Wasny to such a bad Guy after All. Of i am now 21 and have just married a wonderful Young Man. Dad got married last year and the hostility Between my parents just seemed to evaporate. I got the nicest present anyone could have Given me. My Mother and my Stepmother gave me a Surprise bridal Shower a together mom insisted that dad give me away at my wedding and she and dad stood together at my Side to give me their blessings. My Stepmother insisted that mom and dad sit together at the wedding dinner. My parents laughed and danced together and everyone had a super time. I did no to have to ask anybody to please be Nice for my Sake. There were genuine Good feelings. I get emotional just thinking about it. Sign this. Dreams can come True dear dreams can come True what an upper your letter is your parents and the same company for More than 30 years. 1 drive an 11-year-old car and have lived in the same House since 1970. 1 also have three daughters who Are in High school and College. It was my daughters who helped me appreciate the Good life we have. They Teel Lucky to have grown up in the same House and to have the same friends the a pc known All their lives. One daughter worried when 1 bought a lottery ticket. She told her Mother. Quot would t it be awful if dad won i like the Way we live and id hate it if we suddenly became  1 snipped by Vii lottery tickets. Our daughters Are better educated than their parents. They do not smoke drink or take drugs. They Are Good students and Fine human beings Lake a look at the children of some of those fast track successes. Can the same be said of them Content in Maine from Richmond a this is for Quot class of �?T73&Quot unfortunately society rewards people who get Rich not the ones who choose to concentrate on family life. Our priorities and values leave much to be desired. Long Island i was a big shot in High school and everyone was sure 1 was headed for Fame Power and riches. Well Here i am 31 years old not driving a Bow but a school bus. And How do i feel terrific i love what i do and  Trade places with anybody. C creators Syndicate Stepmother showed rare maturity sensitivity and generosity. Few children of divorced parents Are As fortunate. Luck Vou dear Abby this is the first time i have written but i thought you might find this letter of interest. When my daughter informed me More than a month ahead of time that she and her husband planned to give me a big 80th birthday Celebration. I remembered a letter that appeared in your column several months ago from a woman who requested that All of her Quot gifts go to the local food Bank. Well the party was a huge Success. More than 70 guests attended and 145 pounds of food and $137 in coins and checks were donated. My photograph appeared in the local paper and i received bouquets of Flowers from the local Flower shop and radio station a with congratulations for having Given my a birthday gifts to the food Bank. What a wonderful feeling to know that i have helped the hungry through these very difficult times. It was so worthwhile. It would make me very Happy to hear that Many others would do the same. Just sharing the occasion with my wonderful friends was present enough for me. Helen in Ottawa. Canada dear Helen congratulations on your 80th May you celebrate Many More and continue the spirit of giving. This letter May inspire others to celebrate their birthdays by encouraging others to give to those who arc hungry. C a Versal press Syndicate across 44 mar slave 1 trifling 46 old Man 2 raw Rock amount 50 yank 3 classic 4 swindle 51 hold Sway 4 change 8 Jig and rip 52 form of into 12 vexation sugar 5 Rhoda s 13 Ernie s 56 help mom mrs. Hoods 6 Serge 14 Saber s 57 Decora Cousin sow,.&Quot Tion 15 Nayarit 58 postal . 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