European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 18, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday october 18, 1991 the stars and stripes b Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers from time to time you offer in formation about hot lines and support groups for people struggling with different problems. Id like to Tell you about a program that also could be of wonderful use to your faithful followers. The boys town National hotline 1-800-448-3000, is a toll free crisis line for both troubled parents and children across the country. It is operated by boys town the world famous Home for abused neglected and abandoned boys and girls founded by father Edward j. Flanagan in 1917. Our hot lines professional Counselor Are trained to Deal with problems involving physical and sexual abuse suicide running away alcohol and drug abuse parenting issues school behaviour eating disorders Etc. They do Short term Telephone counselling and refer callers to services in their own hometowns using a computer data base of 50,000 local agencies and programs nationwide. In addition boys town has Sites in nine states and can refer callers to our shelters and programs in these areas. The hot line is open 24 hours a Day every Day. We have a add line 1-800-448-1833 so we can communicate with the hearing impaired. We also have bilingual Counselor to assist Spanish speaking callers. Please share our boys town National number with your millions of readers who receive compassion and Wise advice from you each Day. Its a number they can Call any time free of charge for help with any problem. May god bless you in your continued Good work helping families across America. Father Val j. Peter executive director boys town today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby i am a 25-year-old White male who until recently thought i had everything going for me. I had a wonderful Girlfriend a Good paying Job a Nice apartment and a Nice car. Then i began to use intravenous drugs and before i knew it a year had blurred by. Today i have lost everything everything i began to burglarized Homes for Money to buy drugs. I have lost All that was dear to me and am currently serving time in prison for burglary. While incarcerated 1 lost my father to cancer. Also i found out that i have aids from using someone else a Needles and i done to know How much time i have left. I want to run to every teen Ager grab them and scream at them a never never touch drugs a if i survive my incarceration 2 to 4 years1 want to tour schools and try to teach some of these kids before its too late by telling them what i have Learned. Too late for me dear too late if you never get to a tour schools a you will have per dear father Peter i be checked out boys town and it has a glowing five Star rating. I m delighted to Tell the world about this great place that helps boys girls and their parents. Expect a deluge padre. You re going to get it. Dear Ann Landers my son. 42, is in a second marriage 11 years and has two wonderful children. He and his wife both have Good jobs. Today he told me that he is expecting a baby soon by a woman who is not his wife. 1 am very Hurt by this Anil feel like wringing his neck. His wife is unaware of the situation. 1 Don t know the other woman but she knew my son was married when she took up with him. They work together. A this is not the first time my son has had an affair. My daughter in Law also had an affair for which my son never forgave her. That Wasny to her first affair either. The problem my daughter in Law is going to find out about this sooner or later but i could never bring myself to Tell her. When she docs find out Shell know i knew about it and Shell be very angry with me for not telling her. When this child is born what do i do it will be my grandchild but if i acknowledge it it might upset my daughter in Law. In a furious with my son. But i know he loves his wife and they Aren t going to split up Over this. What is the right thing to do g in Detroit dear Detroit you Are under no obligation to keep your daughter in Law informed about her husband s escapades. You Are right to keep your Mouth shut. When the child is born take your Cue from the baby smother. If she wants you involved Fine if not stay away. It s her Call. C creators Syndicate formed a valuable service by writing this letter. God bless you Young Man. Dear Abby please Tell me if i am right or wrong. My daughter in Laws brother a Bob a was married last week and i was invited to the wedding. It was a big social event and one of the most Beautiful weddings Ever held in our Cathedral. My daughter a Lisa a was not invited and now she a mad at me because i went. She thinks i should not have gone because she Wasny to invited. Abby there is no reason Why Lisa should have been invited a she a not related to Bob and 1 am related Only through marriage. Also she a never even met the Bride. Do you think she a justified in being angry and insulted Over this now she hates me because 1 attended the wedding. Lisa is in her 50s and i am in my 80s. Hurt in Brooklyn dear Hurt Lisa a behaviour is childish and unreasonable. Do not permit your daughter to Lay a guilt trip on you. If she a a hates you for attending a wedding to which she was not invited a it s her problem not yours. C Universal press Syndicate across 35 easter entertain 1 Trench. 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