European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 18, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 20 a the stars and stripes monday november 18, 1991 ,1 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers a a let a be friends is a phrase that men and women have used for Ages when they break up. I have been unceremoniously dumped by several Guys but with a a Judd it was different. He suggested we remain friends. It sounded Good. We exchanged Christmas gifts and he dropped by occasionally. Judd was always polite and there was no sex involved. We both dated others but i always believed deep Down that someday things would get serious. We lost track of one another after a while. Last week friends saw Judd with an attractive Young woman. I telephoned and left a message wishing him Luck. He called me Back and we had a Nice talk. He did no to mention the woman but he did say that he thinks about me often. Last night i called him just to say hello. In the course of the conversation he mentioned casually that he had been living with the woman for eight months. This is the Man who a thinks of me often a and he Snow telling me this it seems he met her at a singles dance and they Are very serious about each other. I feel Hurt and betrayed. My advice to All women is this when its Over its Over. You can to be friends with someone you had a deep relationship with. Chop it off. Totally. I Felt a lot better when Guys just dumped me. Lesson Learned in . Dear . Why do you feel a Hurt and betrayed Judd made no commitment nor did he try to deceive you. When a Man tells a woman he a thinks of her often a this does no to mean his thoughts Are erotic. In a afraid wish today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby bless you for your humanitarian objection to the traditional labor Day Pigeon shoot in Hegins a. I happen to be a Bird Lover and it May please you to know that i wrote to you in 1961 on the subject of cruelty to Birds. You printed my letter and i still have the clipping. 1 am enclosing a copy. You May want to print it again. A still a Bird Lover at age 89 dear Bird Lover it s a wonder Fril letter and i certainly do want to print it again. Here it is dear Abby will you please say something about people who buy Birds As pets and then mistreat them i have actually had people say to me Quot our Canary fell into the dishwater and was or a your parakeet flew into the open fireplace and got burned or a the cat got or a the dog got i once knew a Man who used to give his parakeet Vodka just to see How it would act. This same Man is big and Strong and just because the Bird pecked him on quibble set mom us to is com to Ime Fetcu it a or Uibo Siw do. Us Ivic 10 set of 50 those to the swamp fill thinking has distorted your judgment. Get real Honey. Dear Ann Landers in a recent column a woman asked what she should do if a Man approached her on the Street when she was alone at night. Your authorities said she should assume a air of assertiveness and not appear frightened. Here s a better suggestion do the unexpected. I have two examples. A woman stopped at a traffic Light. When the Light changed to Green a Man stepped off the curb opened the door on the passenger Side jumped in and said Quot drive on a the woman replied calmly a not until you get the Man shouted a i told you to drive on a the woman then reached for the ignition key tossed it out the window and said a this car is not going any the Man looked stunned got out of the car and walked away. The second example a Young woman who worked As a Bank Teller greeted her next customer cheerfully. The Well dressed Man carrying a briefcase pushed a paper bag through the opening of her window and handed her a note saying a fill this bag with Money. I have a the woman shoved the a a closed sign in front of the would be robber and said a you la have to go to the next window. This is my Coffee she then walked away. The robber stunned by her response left the Bank empty handed. So my advice is when in danger do the unexpected. W.t., Bradenton Fla. Dear . Sorry i done to think much of your suggestions. There Are too Many gun carrying nuts out there who would just As soon shoot you As look at you. The safest approach when cornered by a thief mugger or rapist is to look for ways to escape. C creates Syndicate the car he knocked the Bird Down and broke its Wing what a pity that Birds Are the most abused of All pets. Bird Lover dear Bird Lover not All pet Birds Are abused a Only those who Are unfortunate enough to belong to people who belong in cages. Dear Abby. Will you please say something to older women who work at fast food places and take jobs from us teenagers there a one who works Here and she a so Goody Goody a always on time and she never goofs off. I done to think she really needs the Money. She must be 50 years old a at least a teen Centerville Iowa dear teen i doubt very much that a 50-year-old woman would be working at a fast food place unless she really needed the Money. Its possible that if it weren to for that Job she would be on welfare. If she a always on time and never goofs Oft id say she a setting a Fine example for the other employees. Give her a break. C Universal press Syndicate across 1 heroic deed 5 Louis partner 8 a Welcome 12 Ballet leap 14 elevator Man 15 Stop Iii. 18 skater s Arena 17 asian festival 18 chooses by ballot 20 rank above Captain 23 Nicholas or Nan 24 King of comedy 25 disappoint 28 disease of sheep 29 spars 30 Over to Keats 32 be unhappy 34 unit of metrical time 35 numerical suffix 36 Rose Peris 21 first coloured 3 famed arabic Dye Ballet letter 37 Coral atom company 22 worn out in the abbr. 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