European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 25, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i done to want to go into too much detail and in a not signing my name but if you use your imagination you can figure out what happened. With so Many guns Loose these Days this letter could have come from Chicago Memphis Florida or new York. Actually i live in los Angeles. Please Ann print this message dear teen Ager i did no to mean to break your mothers heart or bring your family grief. If you were my son i would have told you a son if a policeman says a Stop a a Stop. Don t move. Drop whatever you re carrying and put your hands where he can see them. Treat him with respect. If you done to you could make a lot More trouble for yourself and you already have  i Don t know if you re carrying a Bible or a sawed off Shotgun but in a not taking any chances. You May think in a scared and you re right. I am scared to death. In a scared that i might never see my family again. In a scared that my Little kids Are going to grow up without a father. In be been to too Many of my buddies funerals to think it  happen to me. You May think life is just a game so you play the game for fun. In a sorry son but in a a policeman and i have to play for keeps. Dear Abby dear Abby with All this talk about condoms there a not a word about How to dispose of them safely. Are we assuming that condoms Are used Only in the privacy of ones own bedroom or do we see the real world and know that they Are used anywhere and everywhere no mention is Ever made of sanitary disposal. To a casual stroller it would seem that accepted disposal is Gravity. A walk in the Park and guess what your toddler just picked up an interesting Little item. Or one cuts through the parking lot Ana finds evidence of what has been going on at an earlier time. Please can to we protect others from the very thing the condom user is protecting himself from As the Mother of a toddler 40 years ago i was appalled when she found a a a balloon  was blowing it up with the enormous increase in demand condom manufacturers can Well afford individual packages that unfold to make a proper receptacle for disposal. I Hope this makes your Well read column. Mrs. ., san Diego dear mrs.  Thank you for an excellent suggestion. I Hope the condom manufacturers pick up on it. It would be a Public service. Dear Abby i am a 14-year-old girl who regularly baby sits on weekends. The child is wonderful but his Mother is the one i m having trouble with. Quibble of Imis 15 1h�, men u ref amp x Ummat do to patrol go 001 there until Vou reach the Ocean turn right and 6o up to the tip of Alaska turn right and go to the tip of Maine right Donn Florida then Bat kids Mcfie. La wednesday thursday december 25/26, 1991 the stars and Stripe today s crossword Page 21 those Are the rules and nobody can change them. Law officer in California dear officer that  have been an easy letter to write. Thank you for sending it my Way. Dear Ann Landers your advice to the family concerned about College costs and family expenditures for providing higher education was on the Mark except for one thing if a Young person qualifies for admission at most Good colleges and universities the institution he or she chooses will work hard to make sure the family can afford it. The financial Aid system in this country assumes that every family has a responsibility to pay what it can for a child a education but no More. The institution and other agencies step in then to make education possible. Granted the system does no to always work but millions of people can testify to the fact that it usually does. William r. Lowery vice president for external relations Carleton College Northfield Minn. Dear William Lowery i received dozens of letters from admissions officers and faculty members telling the same Story. College is very expensive these Days but it is within the reach of anyone who wants it badly enough provided that person has decent grades. C creators Syndicate inc. Every time i baby sit i wait weeks to get paid. On some occasions i have even had to Call this woman and ask her to please pay me so i can buy birthday presents Etc. I feel Pushy and greedy doing this but How else do i go about it so Abby please ask your readers to consider their children a Sitters. After All you can put off the Telephone Bill for Only so Long before the phone company disconnects your Telephone. A Sitter in waiting dear Sitter its customary to pay the Sitter immediately after the Sitter has sat. No need to Feci a a Pushy or a a greedy a be upfront with the woman and Tell her you expect to be paid promptly following each sitting. The squeaky wheel gets the Oil a so speak up. Dear Abby your rerun on hugging is now out of Date. It should be published with the following warning if you Are a Man and you hug a child you May be accused of child molestation or paedophilia. If you hug a woman you could be charged with sexual harassment. If you hug another Man you arc suspected of being Gay. Well you can still hug a dog. Or can you Jim Truman grass Valley Calif. Dear Jim yes but Only with the dogs permission. 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