European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 17, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday january 17, 1992 the stars and stripes Page 21 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i have been married for 18 months and am still a Virgin at age 38. To put it frankly in a afraid to have sex because it might Hurt. Thank god i have a very understanding husband who is patiently trying to work this problem out with me. I feel perfectly Content with our marriage the Way it is. The Only hitch is that we both want to have children. In be informed my doctor that i would like to be artificially inseminated with my husband s sperm. He refuses to consider this and has told us both we must conceive in the Normal fashion since neither of us has a medical problem. My husband seems to think that eventually i will get Over my fear of sex but i have told him i would prefer that things stay the Way they Are. He thinks i should see a psychiatrist but 1 Don t see Why. There is nothing wrong with my mind Ann. I just have this fear of pain which is perfectly Normal. My friends Tell me i should have stayed single but i do not agree. My husband and i Are very Happy together and get along beautifully except for this one thing. Please let me hear from you Ann. A married Virgin in Hartford dear Hart one of the most compelling of All human urges is the desire to reproduce. The fact that this Normal sexual drive is blocked by your fear of pain is evidence that something went off the track awhile Back. Ask your doctor to recommend a sex therapist. Not Only Are you being unfair to your husband but you also Are cheating yourself out of one of the great pleasures of crossword dear Abby dear Abby in be never seen this situation written up in your column it s mothers in Law who carry their sex sons in Law or daughters in Law on a Silver Platter in front of the present son in Law or daughter in Law. Why do they do this when they know it irritates the present son or daughter in Law also if the a a exp was so terrific in the first place they be a a exp now right hurting in Houston dear hurting where grandchildren Are involved its in the Best interest of the children to portray the absent Parent in the Best possible Light. Many mothers in Law do go overboard extolling the Virtues of the a a exp son or daughter in Law because they re bitter and angry when they recall happier times before acrimony and Alimony entered the picture. Dear Abby my husband and i eloped in the 60s, and we forgot quibble i can t Ono cd stand it this time x followed the Hap exactly we went do con this Road past those Little 01aoc squares those Potev it Tod should be standing on a Nice Blue Carutt right nou. Dear Ann Landers i am married. I am also the Boss. I have several competent women employees who come on to me in Subtle ways. They Wear see through blouses in the office which i consider poor taste. I do not Wear see through pants to work. Their thigh High Short skirts May be fashionable but when they sit Down i am afraid to look for fear of what might be showing. If i were to bring up this subject they might charge me with a sexual so once they Are hired and their work skills Are up to Par there is very Little 1 can do. The Law is now on their Side. I often wonder if these women Are trying to trap me into making passes at them. When i once mentioned a a appropriate clothing in the office they pointed out that they dress like everyone else in the building a which is True. I am proud to say that in the 28 years in be been married cheating never once crossed my mind. Why then do these women come on to me i Don t flirt and am very Businesslike. Of course i could not ask my Secretary to Type this letter so please excuse the mistakes. Businessman Usa dear Usa there a not much a Boss can do about Short skirts these Days because they Are considered fashionable and the sky seems to be the limit. See through blouses Are another Story. If there is a senior woman in the office ask her to Tell the transparent ladies that see through numbers arc unacceptable. As for the women who Are coming on to you that a simple. A Boss who maintains a formal arms length relationship with his female employees May be called aloof humourless a cold fish and a few other unflattering names but he will never be accused of sexual harassment. Its sad that it has come to this. C creators Syndicate to bring along a camera so we have no pictures of ourselves for that big occasion. Our children arc now grown and we even have grandchildren and we arc very much ashamed of not having any wedding pictures. What i would like from you is the name of a company or a photographer who can take old pictures of my husband and me and superimpose the Heads on another couple dressed in a Nice Tuxedo and wedding gown. I am not looking for a wedding album a just a few pictures of a Nice Young couple getting married. Please do not judge me for being deceitful. Needs memories dear needs i am not a a judging you but there is no shame in admitting that you eloped and therefore have no wedding pictures. Rather than attempting to have your Heads superimposed on the bodies of another couple Why not renew your wedding vows on your next anniversary you could rent a Beautiful bridal gown and Tuxedo and engage a photographer to capture the occasion. 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