European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 27, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 20 a the stars and stripes monday january 27, 1992 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers we Are concerned about our 15-year-old son. He thinks he is madly in love with a 13-year-old girl. We thought it would be a two week Romance Over the phone but it has turned into a serious love affair. A a Jason told his dad that he has had sex with this girl several times at her Mother s House. He said he did not use a condom the first time and was scared to death she might be pregnant. When she found out she Wasny to they did t take any More chances. His dad and i feel we should Tell the girls Mother but we Are afraid because the girl is Only 13. If her Mother goes to the Law our son could be charged with rape and his life would be ruined. Jason has always been very honest and open with us. He is an excellent student but his grades Are not As High As they were before he started to see this girl. We have punished him for breaking curfew but we Haven to forbidden him to see her. He has dropped his friends and sees no one except this girl. When he in today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby promiscuous sex seems to be a major topic these Days. What should we do about it How much should we Tell our kids Many years ago when i served in the . Army air corps we were Brave Young men a Normal healthy and innocent a and we were going off to War. The air corps in its Wisdom showed us very graphic movies that explained what could happen to our bodies if we caught what they called in those Days a Quot social believe me it Wasny to pretty. I saw big strapping men faint and some became nauseated and ran from the room while viewing these movies. They were always shown on Friday afternoon just before the men took off for a big weekend. Let me hasten to say that the movies did not kill off our sexual desires. What they did was increase the demand for condoms which were free for the asking at the checkout desk. We All know that sex is Here to stay. All healthy Normal people Are interested in sex and nothing is going to change that. Perhaps now is the time to Start showing those movies again a Only this time they should be shown to the students in High schools. Let them see what can happen to them if they done to either abstain from sex or take proper precautions. I am confident that after seeing a few of those movies most of them will. George m. Gillson Denton Texas dear George scare tactics arc not the answer education is. During world War 11, a a social disease now called a a sexually transmitted disease was curable with penicillin. Now we must Deal with aids for which there is no known cure. While condoms offer some pro with her he son the phone talking to her for hours. He says this is the person he a going to marry. I worry that if we try to put a Stop to everything he May run away move in with her or try suicide which he has mentioned. Please help us Ann. We done to know what to do. Frightened in Michigan dear Michigan you were Wise not to read the riot act to Jason and insist that he not see the girl anymore. It would have driven them closer together and you would be perceived As a the once teen agers Start to have sex and think they Are in love they Are not going to Stop. The fact that Jason has brought up suicide is an indication he is not very stable. If you could get him to talk to a Counselor it might help. A competent Counselor will make a Friend of the boy and guide him appropriately. He will Tell Jason that the girl is underage and he could be in serious trouble with the Law. Meanwhile stay Cool non judgmental and Pray a lot. That Sall you can do. C creators Syndicate Section their failure rate is estimated at anywhere from 11 percent to 19 percent a not very encouraging Odds considering that the penalty for a defective condom could be an Early grave. So today who among the sexually Active is Safe Only those who Are strictly monogamous with a partner who is also strictly monogamous a provided neither is his positive. Dear Abby a Reader signed a guilty conscience sought advice on How to make restitution for a fraudulent insurance claim he had made Many years ago. He feels guilty for having accepted a medical insurance payment he was not entitled to and now he wants to make amends. You May be interested to know that the very next Day i received a letter of apology and a Check from a former policyholder saying he had accepted a claim payment from us in 1974 after he had illegally disposed of his automobile. He said his Check of restitution also marked his return to sobriety As the eighth and ninth Steps of alcoholics Anonymous recovery program require participants to list those they have harmed and make amends where possible. In be sent this person a letter expressing our thanks and our Best wishes along with a Promise to donate the Money he sent to the Chicago alcoholics Anonymous chapter. Abby examples of insurance fraud Are found All too often these Days. Fraud is a $16 billion problem for property and casualty insurers in this nation and the More we can do to reduce the problems of fraud the More control we can exercise on the insurance premiums we All pay. But these Are obviously More than stories about insurance fraud. They re triumphs of conscience and courage and they should be celebrated. Ray h. Kiefer of Allstate Northbrook ill. 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