European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 31, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday january 31, 199 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i married a wonderful Man with no children three years ago. We get along Fine except for one thing a Danny so family. His married brother a Pat a lives Down the Street and is constantly asking us to baby sit or help him work on his car. Danny works a night shift and i work a Day Job. The Only time i get to see him is on saturday and sunday. I feel the weekends should not be spent baby sitting or changing Oil but should be our time. Pat has three Young children so the requests to baby sit Are frequent. He makes a Good salary and could easily pay a Sitter. His wife does t work outside the Home but she never seems to get anything done except her hair. She also likes to shop. Their House and cars Are filthy and the kids always have some virus that we usually end up catching because we re never told that the kids Are sick. Danny lived with Pat before we were married. I can t Tell you How Many times Danny cancelled a Date or was late because he was cleaning their House cooking supper or bathing the children while Pat and his wife were out eating dinner or taking in a movie. We saw a therapist for several months but Danny wont go Back. He says this is a family matter. Meanwhile i m fed up and stressed out. Any advice Ann tired of being used dear tired til bet things will change when you and Danny Start a family. Until then let him know he a being unfair to you and Tell him Ann thinks you re getting the Short end of the stick. Dear Ann Landers thank you. These two simple words could never con today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby i recently bought a Day care Center and am now planning the grand opening. I have a wonderful 28-year-old sister living in a Distant state and i would love to Fly her Here for the opening. She a terrific with children and would make a perfect Clown dressed up in costume and makeup. Sis weighs around 285 pounds she a hysterically funny and has a glow about her that children love. The problem is that i am not sure she will be Able to fit into a regular coach airline seat and i would hate to have to buy two seats for her. Maybe one of your readers has had this problem and has a solution. Arizona sister dear sister my office contacted six major airlines american Continental Delta Northwest Twa and United. Only one a Delta a has a weight guideline if the passenger weighs More than 200 pounds purchasing a second quibble what s go Frig on ? sat Row ia>5 Ammeters Rehem bathed 30 he s a Little dfew6ssed.wmv of Oft too Shi 50n6th/ng Mee to him a. Haw returns Cahel it Fath. Vod look 06lies? ?9dav. R 5wvu.i get you a stamp oui6glev? tvs la n�,y6r pick too up Torr Hout a Stanfi Rev the gratitude i d like to express on behalf of the a a volunteers and staff of t be arthritis foundation and the millions of americans we Are working to help. Doit recently Princeil a letter from. Marilynn .1. Cason chairman of the  of the arthritis foundation. The letter explained the pain faced by people of All Ages with arthritis and the disability and disfigurement arthritis often brings. The letter also explained that a Fuch can be done to help those with arthritis and you graciously included the foundation s address and National toll free number. So far we have received More than 91,090 Telephone Calls and about 20,000tetters, and we continue to receive a steady Stream of Telephone Calls and mail requests for information. We have Learned that More than 08 percent of the callers had never contacted the arthritis foundation before. About 80 percent of the callers have arthritis. The others Are calling for family members or friends with arthritis. A Ann you have made it possible for the arthritis foundation to reach Many thousands of people with accurate information about arthritis and was they can improve the Quality of their lives. We Are deeply grateful. Don l. Riggon president arthritis foundation dear Don Riggin thanks for letting me know. Its always rewarding to get some positive feedback after making a recommendation. V for those readers who did no to see it the first time a for free information about the latest on Relief for arthritis write to the arthritis foundation . Box 19000, Atlanta a. 30326. The phone number is 1-800-2837800. C creators Syndicate seat is recommended at a 50. Percent discount of the full coach fare. Northwest offers no discounts on second seats. Most of the other airlines discount 50 percent of full fare for second scats. With airline regulations changing from Day to Day you would be Wise to Call the airline from which you will be buying the ticket and ask them the dimensions of its coach seats to determine whether a second seat is needed. Dear Abby can you please Tell me what a first base a a second base a a third based and a a Home run mean i am not talking about baseball a i mean in a relationship. I need to know because i feel left out when my girlfriends talk about How far they went with a Guy. K.f., Meriden Conn. Dear . Unless the game has changed since i was a girl first base was kissing second base petting above the Waist third base petting below the Waist and a Home run meant going All the Way. C a Versal press Syndicate across 1 Musi Cianos Job 4 vivacity 8 Jack s partner 12 past 13 temporary quiet 14 aware of 15 As per ceremony 17 wreck 18 form into 19 mr., is. 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