European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 1, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday february 1, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers you hear so much these Days about adopted children searching for their birth parents and having touching reunions. I Felt it was time i wrote my first letter to Ann Landers to Tell a different Story. In a sure there Are others like me. I am adopted and i done to wish to find my natural Mother. I know who my a a real parents Are. I was born in a Home for unwed mothers so i know my birth Mother did what was Best for both of us when she gave me up. I was adopted by a Loving couple who already had an adopted son. Even though my brother was physically handicapped my parents still had room in their hearts and their Home for him. In be had a truly wonderful life a piano lessons private schools family vacations clothes cars and a College education. But even More important i was raised in a Home where morals and values were not Only taught but shown by example. My parents had a 45-year marriage based on Strong Faith and True love. When my father passed away no a a daddy a girls Ever grieved More for a natural father than i did for him. Now the time i spend with my Mother seems a lot More precious to me. I know this letter is getting Long so let me conclude with a message to my birth Mother thank you for giving me up. I know god helped to put me in the Best possible Home. I am All grown up now and a respected today s crossword dear Abby dear readers someone once said a a lie can travel half Vay around the world be fore the truth can get its pants  How True. The a a lies in this Case is crediting quotations to the wrong person. Read on dear Abby 1 am finally writing to ask you to Correct your nov. 17, 1990, column that contained the definition of a a Success attributed to Ralph Waldo Emerson. It was very similar to one written in 1904 by my grandmother Bessie Anderson Stanley. I have seen other definitions of Success on cards taken from grandmothers work. Hallmark cards erroneously credited Robert Louis Stevenson As the author they later corrected their error i would appreciate a correction from you please. My family has enjoyed your column for years and looks Forward to hearing from you. Arthur Stanley Harvey Richmond by. Dear or. Harvey my apologies to your family. According to a distilled Wisdom an encyclopedia of Wisdom in condensed form by Alfred Armand Montapert published by Prentice Hall inc., Bessie Anderson Stanley wrote the famous definition of Success that was published in 1904 in Brown Book Magazine. And Here it is a the has achieved Success who has lived Well laughed often and loved much who has enjoyed the Trust of professional. I do wonder about you on occasion but i am not searching for you. I Hope you be had a Happy fulfilling life. I have and i thank you for that. C.b., Shreveport. La dear Shreveport what a mature and comforting letter. The parents who raised you should be terribly proud. The Mother who had the courage and Good judgment to allow you to be adopted should also feel Good about herself when she reads this today. Dear Ann Landers will you answer a real puzzler some friends and 1 have debated this Issue and have decided to seek your counsel. Here is the scenario a a bobs and a a Carol Are divorced. Carol was the one who left and has since remarried. Quot Nancy is single and is carols Friend. They see each other frequently at the local country club. Nancy has become acquainted with carols sex husband Bob and she is beginning to like him. Should Nancy consult Carol before she goes any further with Bob puzzled in the Pines dear puzzled Nancy has no obligation to consult Carol about her relationship with Bob since Carol is or should be finished with him. Since they Are Good friends however it would be rather Odd if Nancy did no to mention it. If the budding Romance should develop into something truly serious Carol might wonder Why Nancy was so silent. C creators Syndicate pure women the respect of intelligent men and the love of Little children who has filled his Niche and accomplished his task who has left the world better than he found it whether an improved poppy a perfect poem or a rescued soul who has always looked for the Best in others and Given them the Best he had whose life was an inspiration whose memory a  dear Abby my husband and i were married for 27 years when he decided he wanted out. Like All married couples we had our ups and Downs. After a lot of professional help and nine months of a roller coaster life i insisted that we go ahead with the divorce. It was hard for me because i still loved him. For the first three months after the divorce we had no Contact. Then on fathers Day 1990, we started  by Christmas we knew we should be Back together. I am Happy to say that in March of 1991 we were remarried which brings me to my question should we Start counting our anniversaries from the beginning of our second marriage or should we celebrate our original anniversary Date and keep going depending upon which Way we count it 1992 could Mark our 29th.anniversary. Second time sweethearts Snohomish Wash. Dear sweethearts make your next anniversary your 29th, and keep going. Consider your divorce a a learning  obviously you belong together. 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