European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - March 16, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 20the stars and stripes monday March 16,1992 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers you recently printed a letter from a woman in Binghampton n. Y., who had accidentally stolen a ring from a jewelry store and was afraid to leave her House. I thought you might be interested in a positive response generated by the column i am the president of a Bank in Connecticut. Your column and the following letter were sent to me along with $50. Quot dear sir i kept something that was Given to me in error and i am now returning it to your Bank. A there Are the facts i cashed a Check at your Bank on oct. 24, 1991. I put the Money in an envelope and left. When i stopped later to pay a Bill in Cash i noticed there was an extra $50. I tried to convince myself that the Bank had insurance to cover this Type of thing but i just  do it. A feelings of guilt set in. Days weeks a month passed. I wanted to return the $50, but i  bring myself to enter the Bank. I Felt that everyone knew 1 had stolen the Money and could see the word a thief branded on my forehead. A the solution the attached Ajin Landers column gave me the courage to right a wrong. I am ashamed of what i did. Here is the $50. Please forgive this sinner. I am truly sorry. A Bank customer Ann because of insurance Premium costs Banks usually carry High deductibles against theft and shortages of this Type. In our Case shortages come out of the employee Bonus Pool. In any event your column gave this person peace of mind and for that i thank you. William j. Mcgurk president and ceo the savings Bank of Rockville Conn. Dear or. Mcgurk thanks for letting me know that something in my col today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby i Felt so sorry for 11-year-old Jeremy Schwartz who had a pair of goldfish named Ike and Mike and Mike died. I also had two goldfish As pets so i know How he Felt when Mike died. My goldfish were rescued from an outdoor Pond at the synagogue where i worked or they probably would have Frozen Over the Winter. I brought them Home and named them Mhazel and Brocha. Unfortunately one of them did no to even last the first night. I Wasny to even sure if it was Mhazel or Brocha who died so i named the survivor Goldie not knowing whether it was male or female its a most appropriate name because of his her Beautiful color. That was in 1990. Goldie is still alive and doing Well and he she now has a place of Honor in my apartment. If Jeremy Ever comes to Southfield mich., he is Welcome to visit us. In a a a a Bubbie grandmothers in addition to the pictures of my children and grandchildren i keep a picture of Goldie in my Wallet too. Rosalie Sparr urn gave a Reader the courage to do the right thing. This May seem insignificant but it Means a great Deal to me. Dear Ann Landers this is in response to a stymied in Michigan a whose new husband changed As soon As they were married. My experience was identical to hers. Our courtship was wonderful. A a Nick was Loving and generous and made me feel terrific. He was the one who was eager to marry and pressed for it. It was the second marriage for both of us. After we exchanged our wedding vows his personality changed completely. He became Cool and defensive and criticized everything i did. When i asked him what was wrong he would say  after two years of marriage i had to move out in order to regain my sanity. Oddly enough soon after we were living apart he became that Lovely adoring person i used to know. The lesson i Learned was that some people Are meant to be by themselves and they Are happiest that Way. They honestly believe that they want to be married but somehow they feel uncomfortable in the marriage and really want to go a a Home and be alone. A a stymied had better accept the fact that her husband probably loves her but he cannot take togetherness 24 hours a Day. M. From Michigan dear Mich the situation you describe is much More Likely in a second marriage. When the second marriage lacks the ease a spouse was accustomed to after Many years in a Happy first Marfa tic he or she May feel that something is  second marriages Are not for everyone. And some first ones Arentt either. C creators Syndicate dear Rosalie thanks for a Lovely fish Story. Goldfish make wonderful pets. They re easy to feed require no License and you always know where they Are. Dear Abby what is the Correct thing to do when you have visitors and the phone rings is it of to say a May i Call you Back i have visitors now my sister in Law had that happen to her and the party who called her just blessed her out something terrible saying a a that a the rudest thing i have Ever heard of anyone doing a then she slammed Down the Telephone receiver and Hasni to spoken to her since. Abby i have done the same thing several times thinking it Wasny to fair to leave the visitor just sitting there while i talked on the Telephone. Thank you for your answer. Sign this. Wondering in Conyers a. Dear wondering it would be unspeakably rude to leave a guest sitting alone while the Host or hostess carried on a Long winded conversation on the Telephone. No reasonable person would take offence to being told a i have company now. 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