European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 3, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday june 3, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers last november my grandmother who is in her mid-80s, let two men who posed As water department workers into her Home to a Check the while one Man kept her occupied in the basement the other one rifled through her purse and took $400. Grandma called me nearly hysterical saying Over and Over that this loss meant she be Able to fix the roof on her House. I took out a $400 Cash Advance on my credit card and gave her the Money to fix the roof. In be also Given her Money for groceries in the past when she said that she did no to have anything in the House to eat and that she was living on leftovers brought in by neighbors. Grandmas health has been deteriorating rapidly and my Mother insisted that she move to Arizona where mom could take care of her. When i went to help grandma pack her belongings i discovered her Bank Book. I was shocked to find that she has $45,000 in a savings account and has added to it As recently As last month. In a really angry at her for being so dishonest with us All these years. Please Tell me Ann Why would a person who pretended to be so religious All her life feign poverty and take from others feeling ripped off in Gary ind. Dear Gary lighten up on grandma. Her advanced years May very Well be a Factor in her recent Peculiar behaviour. Also consider the fact that people who have been very poor for a Good Many years have a difficult time parting with s crossword dear Abby dear Abby i have a Little problem. I done to know if you can help me but i figured id write anyway since you give such Good advice. What in a about to write about seems to be happening More and More with Young people my age. In a a 24-year-old unmarried woman in a talking about having sex with More than one partner at a time. Like most men my steady dreams of having two women in bed with him at the same time. He sold me on that idea about three months ago so we experimented with another couple. My Girlfriend and i sort of put on a show for the Guys. I found it very exciting after i got Over the shyness and embarrassment. Everyone had a really Good time. My Boyfriend said he has always fantasized about group sex and he did no to feel any guilt and was very glad that i loved him enough to go along with it. My Only problem is that i really love this Guy and he has even talked about marriage someday but we never have sex alone anymore a just the two of us. Abby do you think this is wrong i have talked to Many people who have done it and they say it strengthens their relationships. What Are your ideas on the subject Abby fan in Philadelphia quibble or qui661ev, what s oof real purpose out Here me u 6. me us Mere to act As a deter6mt a id id it Ftp 1w0&e Taftt would take our freedoms Feldmus Are u1e Here to shoo our allies that we u it staud by arc our mat Kmmel policy Taip 70 act As so our Nattam utu. File proud of Oso Are u1e committed to it it would be perfectly appropriate to Tell grandma that you found her Bank Book and were delighted to discover that she is now Able to repay the $400 she borrowed. Let her know How pleased you Are that she is no longer destitute. Dear Ann Landers i was injured in an Accident some time Back and recently came into a Large sum of Money As a result of the settlement. My Boyfriend feels that when its time for us to become officially engaged i should pay for my engagement ring because in my Rich he makes Good Money and can certainly afford to get me a Nice ring. Also he is insisting that my settlement Money be put in a savings account in both our names. We have been fighting about this for quite a while and in a making myself sick Over it. Whatever your advice is Ann i will take it because 1 done to know my own mind anymore. Kathy in Long Island dear Long Island no matter How much Money a woman has her Fiance should buy the engagement ring even if the Stone is so Small you can to see it under a magnifying Glass. As for putting your Accident settlement Money in a joint savings account i would be wary of a fellow who would make such a suggestion. Since new York is not a Community property state what s yours is yours and your Lanct would have no claim on it after you re married if you kept it in your own name. Since the sum is considerable i suggest you talk to your lawyer so you Are dear on exactly what should be done to protect it. C creators Syndicate inc. Dear Abby fan your Boyfriend has sold you on participating in a cheap degrading kind of sexual game that should make you want to run As far away from him As possible. A Man who truly loves a woman would never ask her to participate in such dangerous and destructive games. Rather than strengthen relationships it makes a sexual encounter As meaningless As a meal you ate last tuesday. Dear Abby i am a professional woman happily married for 18 years to a professional Man. We have a wonderful son now 13 years old. My concern is this my husband had a troubled marriage when he was 22 years old. It was a very Brief marriage that ended in divorce. His first wife died Many years ago. Our son does not know of his fathers first marriage though certain family members and old friends do. My husband says he sees no reason to Tell his son about it As it is a painful subject he regards As a part of his past. Should our son be told uneasy in California dear uneasy yes. And the sooner the better. 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