European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 4, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Her behaviour was increasingly erratic today a crossword dear Ann Landers Man a a8�> t met the woman of my dreams. We fell madly in love and were engaged within three weeks. Perhaps once a Day a a Kelly would behave somewhat erratically flaring up and losing her temper because of some minor inconvenience. I attributed this inappropriate behaviour to temporary stress and thought no More about it. When her behaviour became More bizarre and the outbreaks More frequent i tried to get her to see a psychiatrist. After one visit she refused to go again even though she acknowledged that maybe she had a a  i talked to her friends and family about my concern and discovered that they too were worried about her. One evening i came Home to find Kelly making threatening phone Calls to a former employer. The following evening she received a police citation. At this Point her Mother wanted to commit Kelly to a psychiatric facility for 72 hours. Because i had witnessed a great Deal of her Odd behaviour and knew she needed treatment i helped her Mother commit her. When the 72 hours were up Kelly had a hearing to determine whether she needed additional care. The Ann Landers psychiatrist told me she was a manic depressive and started her on Lithium treatment. He said it was absolutely essential that Kelly be under medical care so the effects of the drug could be monitored. Because of the psychiatrists recommendation her Mother and i testified at the hearing that Kelly should remain in the Hospital. Well the judge decided to release her when she agreed to undergo treatment. Now Kelly hates me and her Mother and says she never wants to see me again. My friends say i am better off not being involved with a manic depressive but i really love this woman Anid believe i could help her stick with her treatment. What should i do Seattle dear Seattle would you abandon Kelly if she had cancer Well manic depression is an illness too. I urge you not to give up on this woman. The threatening phone Calls suggest an added dimension to her personality disorder. Try to get close to Kelly again and be Alert for other symptoms of anti social behaviour. If you see any Kelly should be confined to ensure the safety of her family and friends As Well As her own. Good Luck. She certainly is Lucky to have you As a Friend. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago 111.60611-0562. C creators Syndicate desert storm pen pals get married dear Abby last year when you gave the addresses for operation dear Abby i sent a Christmas card to a any lonely  i received a postcard from a a Dave Simcox a . Navy stationed aboard the aircraft Carrier Eisenhower. He thanked me for my card and asked me to write again and Tell him something about myself. It seemed harmless enough so i wrote Back and we corresponded for several months. It never occurred to me that wed Ever meet so i was very open and honest concerning my Hopes dreams Etc. In March he said his ship would be pulling in could he meet me at that Point i panicked and thought a what am i getting into a _ we did no to have a clue As to what each other looked like As we had never exchanged pictures he assured me that he did no to care what i looked like a he a a knew i was a Beautiful person by Reading my letters. Abby i  believe there was a Man on Earth with the same values As mine. Anyway we finally met for dinner and talked until 3 . I knew then that i had finally met a Man i would quibble dear Abby consider spending the rest of my life with. He asked me to Many him on our second Date. I said yes a we were married within two months. I am 33 and Dave is 29, and i feel As though we have known each other forever. If it Hadnot been for operation dear Abby we would never have met. This All seems like an incredible dream but its True thank you Abby. Lucked out in Indiana dear lucked out congratulations. Many others have also a plucked out Quot but there Are Many who have made Good friends sans romantic connections. Grandmothers grandfathers and veterans in All branches of the service have become Friendly correspondents through operation dear Abby. I have been told repeatedly that mail is the no. 1 morale Booster for men and women in the service. Dear Abby about wind Chimes they do not scare the Birds i have 13 sets of wind Chimes and five wind ornaments hanging on my porch a plus five Bird feeders. Ruth Pukszta Beloit wis. Letters or this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris Iii. 61054. 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