European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 13, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse I today a crossword dear Ann Landers my wife and t separated five years ago neither of us had any Money so we did no to bother to file for divorce or get separation papers. We agreed to share custody of our daughter and lived separate lives. Four months ago my wife was in a terrible automobile Accident. She was hospitalized for a month and died. Because we did not get a divorce i am now responsible for the Hospital Bills which come close to $125,000.1 am also liable for an additional $35,000, which she ran up on credit cards. The woman had no life insurance and neither of our families has that kind of Money. Alt Ann Landers advice to gis should Deal with dear Abby dear Abby while ago there was a letter in your column from a married Soldier on deployment asking you How he nth his natural desires Ana longings As a Mam your reply was so wonderful i Cut it out and sent it to my husband. We were separated be cause i had to finish a semester of school White he was at his base my husband is now. In Somalia and cd like to Send him a copy. Please print it again a lot of families Are separated and might find it helpful. Stacy Lauth Santa Ana Calif. Dear Stacy thanks for asking Here it is dear Abby i just received a letter from my husband in Korea and something you wrote in your column Over a year ago has helped to keep our marriage a True one i can Best explain by quoting a portion of my husbands letter a Honey do you remember the clipping you sent me from dear Abby a column when i first got Over Here a the one about the Soldier in Korea who wanted to know what to do about his physical needs while he was overseas a Well i still carry it and in be read it so Many times its worn to shreds. It has helped to keep me Strong. Its too bad the army does no tissue a copy to every Man overseas. They could sure save a lot of Money on curing venereal disease and keep a lot of Homes from breaking Abby would you please print it again 1 want to be sure the one my husband has does no to get too worn to read. Grateful Reader dear Reader with pleasure. Here it is. Dear Abby. My problem is one that bothers thousands of gis so i can think about now is How much my daughter will miss because 1 wont be Able to Send her to College. Ann please Tell your readers the following if you Are not living with your spouse done to assume you arc legally separated. 1 realize now too late that i should have insisted on a divorce and managed somehow to Gay for it. My failure to do this has gotten me into a Ole i Flay never get out of. Any suggestions a j.m.c., Tacoma Wash dear Tacoma. Get some Legal counsel at once. Perhaps you will be advised to file for for letting several million readers know that living apart does not constitute Legal separation. You will be considered married and held responsible for tilt spousal obligations unless legally separated or divorced. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11563. Chi. Cago. Iii. 60611 0562. A c creators Syndicate a. I Hope you will print the answer because it is needed badly. I am a happily married Man with a wonderful wife and two Small children Back in the states. In be been in Korea for four months. After living a Normal married life for three years what is a healthy Young Man supposed to do for his physical needs there Are 42 women for every i Over Here and women practically throw themselves at our feet. Done tet me wrong Abby i love my wife but i have a Long itch Over Here and in a Only human. If you print this please sign me Jersey dear Jersey assume for a moment that. I received the following letter dear Abby i am a happily married woman with a wonderful husband and two Small children. My husband has been in Korea for four months and after living a Normal married life for three years what is a healthy Young woman supposed to do for her physical needs there Are plenty of men around and when they learn that my husband is in Korea they practically throw themselves at my of sect. I love my husband but he a going to be gone a Long time and in a Only human. Jerseys wife Well Jersey 1 would Tell that woman to keep As Busy As possible with her duties and As Many wholesome activities As her time and Energy permit. Id suggest Reading physical exercise and yes even prayers. Id to Cal her to stay sober and to avoid temptation and to write to you every Day and that Jersey is my answer to you and to All your buddies in the same lonesome boat. Sincerely Abby letters Tor this column should to addressed to dear Abby. At . Box .447. Mount Morris til. 61054. c Universal press Syndicate. Across 1 bleach Quot Erite. 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