European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 24, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse                                4, adoptee ddn f won to be found dear Ann Landers i am 27 and a adopted As an infant recently my birth Mother had an met Migrator locate me he found ail the Nec Euary information in the a Lintton a courthouse. Through process of elimination my birth Mother earned my whereabouts in week. I am deeply resentful that this information was allowed Tobe seen. I have written letters voicing my outrage and have received no satisfaction. My birth Mother seems Lobea pleasant person and the med ical knowledge she has Given me has been helpful. However i did not want to be found and it has caused a great Deal of stress to me and my family my birth Mother continues to Call me and she wants very much to be a part of my life but this is not what want. This May sound harsh but i already have a Loving family and i want my life to remain the same As it been for the last 27 years without my birth Mother in it. I understand that giving me up for adoption caused her pain but she made that decision and it is now my decision to keep it that Way. I feel that the people who adopted me have become victims with no rights in the matter. I want to warn others if you think you can t be found beware. You Are mistaken. Adopted in Arlington Ann Landers dear Arlington Munfort marry Ami Art Eort Fumii Tomt will Al mat stays make any trailed mile record Tea Lahme. Gustke i owls a branded made m hear Hurt Twe of Ike most valued of All rights is the right to be Tell alone. I agree with that concept. However i know of m Way to keep persistent people from making pests Oft Wierm unless Lacy break the Law. Dear Ann Landers Well you finally got me. An offhand remark in you column compelled me to write to you. I am inquiring about  who was complaining about her tedious  m 29 and single. As someone who is still looking fora person to love and respect someone with whom lean share the  and Downs of life i think most married people take too much for granted. Human nature seems to get More and More unnatural. Please give me some insight. I have this uncontrollable urge to take six aspirins and crawl under my desk.  dear Bel there is no Way you can hide from the foibles of human nature. I do Hope however that you Don t be Lieve All marriages Are miserable. Actually there awesome very Good ones around. Those Good ones Are not accidental. They Are the products of a lot of hard work. Letters to Ann Landora should to add Tut to her it . Don 11562, Chi Cago Iii. 60611-0562. C or Artom synd Catt  May leave parcel with stranger dear Abby i would like to Alert your readers to a routine but undisclosed policy of the United parcel service. I was told by a  representative that the company s policy is to leave a parcel with a neighbor if the individual to whom the parcel i addressed is not at Home. Does  realize that a neighbor May be a total stranger thief or Crook who has no interest in seeing that the package reaches the rightful party should  be shirking its responsibility agreed to inthe delivery contract to deliver the goods to the addressee and if  has this unwritten policy should t this policy remade known to the Public which places its Trust m the company to perform the service i am writing this letter because my husband was the victim of this unwritten policy and suffered a loss of an irreplaceable sports collector s item of much sentimental value. I was disgruntled to learn that  contrary quibble a dear Abby to its verbal Assurance of making three delivery at tempts before returning the package to its Center made Only one delivery attempt then left the parcel with neighbor who was a Complete stranger inc parcel was stolen. This unwritten policy of the  is in Stark contras with our experience with the . Postal service which appears to retain responsibility for delivery of parcel until other arrangements can be made. Although our loss is irreplaceable we would gain satisfaction if our mishap can help others to avoid similar problems. Converts to . Postal system dear converts what an Eye opener my office checked the above with a supervisor of  who said the policy is that Drivers will attempt to deliver the package. If no one sat Home and they see a neighbor they will ask the neighbor to sign for it. However if no neighbors can be found  will make three attempts to deliver the package. 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