European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - March 3, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Wednesday March 3, 1993 is. I in. I $ $ it a j Jap k1 son gives wife a hard time dear Ann Landers i am he father of two sons born out of Wedlock to two different women. I fathered one when i was a teen Ager and the second was Bon during a relationship in College. Although both women wanted marriage i Felt it would be a mistake because of my immaturity and Lack of financial Security. In be been a a hands on father even though both boys have Stepfather. I pay child support and keep informed about their school grades and sports activities. My parents also take an Active interest in their grandsons. A year ago 1 met the right woman and finally settled Down. Since my marriage the arrangement with my sons has not changed. They spend every weekend at my Home. I also take them out to dinner or a movie at least twice a month in Between weekend visits. We All have a Good relationship. The boys proudly carry my surname. The problem is my youngest son a Danny Quot who is now 10. He has been giving my wife a very hard time. On weekends he refuses to take any orders from her including simple things like turning off the television or getting ready for breakfast. Ann Landers he has told her Quot shut up you Are not my  i demanded that he apologize but his behaviour has not improved. My wife goes to great lengths to prepare Nice meals for his visits. A he makes fun of her efforts Calls her cooking Quot slope and barely touches his food. The final Straw came two weeks ago when he urinated on the Brand new carpet in front of my wife. He thought it was funny. I Wasny to Home at the time. His Mother told us that Danny has exhibited no behaviour or discipline problems  or in school. My wife has done nothing to deserve this abuse yet he seems to hate her. What should we do no state no City please dear no City that 10-Ycar-old is in desperate need of counselling. He must be made to understand that his behaviour is totally unacceptable and that he. Must talk openly about his angry feelings in order to get rid of them. Meanwhile your wife should not be a Doormat. She has the right to insist that Danny show her the proper respect she should also have your permission to punish him As you would if he misbehaves in her Home. Letter to Ann Lander should be addressed theret . Son 11562, Chicago .60611-0562. A c creator Syndicate Abe s word holds through the Ages Don Richter of Leesburg ga., wrote a stick to the dear Abby of Leesburg i advice to the lovelorn Abby and Stop being a Public forum for  Abby i think or. Richter is out of line. Be that As it May when Fiorello la Guardia was the mayor of new York City 1933 to 1945he Hung above his desk at City Hall this pronouncement by Abraham Lincoln Quot if 1 were to try to read much less answer All the attacks made on me this shop might As Well be closed for any other business. I do the very Best i know How a the very Best i can and i mean to keep doing so until the end. If the end brings me out All right what is said against me wort amount to anything. If the end brings me out wrong 10 Angels swearing i 1 Quot was right would make no differ  Arthur h. Prince Memphis Tenn. Dear Arthur Prince what a reassuring treasure your letter isl i May take a Page out of mayor la gun Dja i Book and have Abraham Lincoln a eloquent pronouncement framed to hang Over my desk. Dear Abby dear Abby. What can we do about a co worker who has a serious body odor problem this has been going on since last year. We have attempted to no Avail to Alert her to this problem but she has not followed through. I am the office manager and All the employees arc asking me to speak to this individual again. I Don t know How to broach the subject the situation is causing a problem with the staff. This is no joke Abby. It May result in her dismissal. She is a valued employee who has been Here for Many years and i can t seem to find the words. Please help me. A desperate dear desperate Call the woman into your office and say a last year i told you that your co workers had complained about your body odor. Apparently you did nothing about it because they have complained again. A if you Bathe Dally use a deodorant and Wear fresh undergarments and yet still have an odor you could have a medical problem in which Case you should see your physician. A whatever the problem please remedy it promptly. It is unfair to subject your co workers to such unpleasantness. Letters Tor this column should by addressed to Deer Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris Iii. 61054. C Universal press Syndicate the stars and stripes /. J. 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