European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 12, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 26 the stars and stripes Friday november 12,1993 wife baffled by source of infection today s crossword dear Ann Landers can you stand another letter on herpes i Hope so. Two years ago i became ill with High fever chill Sand severe genital pain. The diagnosis was genital herpes. At the time my husband and i had been mar ried 15 years. He was the Only sex partner i d Ever had in my entire life. He showed no symptoms. Life in our House hold War hell. Thanks to the help of several doctors we Learned a lot about genital herpes. 1. Since my husband had other sex partners prior to our marriage he could have contracted it then. Some people have such a mild Case that Theydon t even know they have herpes. Nevertheless they be come carriers. Years later they May have another mild unnoticed outbreak and pass on the virus 2. Condoms do not protect against herpes because the virus is in the entire genital area. 3. If a sex partner with a cold sore has Oral sex he or she can infect a partner. 4. I am a nurse so i could have picked it up while tending a patient. I am meticulous about hand washing but that is no guarantee. Please Tell trouble in Toledo i believe her Hus band completely. I know he could have contracted herpes without having an extramarital affair because that is what happened to me. New Orleans Ann Landers . Thanks for the backup. Dear Ann Lander thirteen years ago i almost married a Man i had dated for a year. Dan was the love of my life.1 we were not kids both 35 years old and Dan had been . Wedding plans were set and then the Bottom fell out. I discovered that Dan was not divorced and that he and is wife had had a thing going All the time he was seeing me. I cancelled the wedding and him along with i was so Hurt i ran straight to another Man whom i married. It was a big mistake. After 12 years of Mutual unhappiness we split. Dan heard about the divorce and came Back into my life. He conned me into believing i was his Only Truelove. We had a Lovely time for three months then i caught him with the same woman. Twice he had humiliated me and i was determine to get even. I enlarged a seductive photo of him in metallic jockey shorts attached it to helium balloons hammered a stake in the ground and there it floated in front of his House facing the Road for All to see. It has been a month and i Haven t heard a word from him or the woman. Sign me feeling victorious in Florida dear victorious i m not sure what you think you won but if that stunt made you feel victorious it May have been Worth the Effort. Letters to Ann Landers should to addressed to he at . Box 11562. Chi Cago in. 60611-0562 e creators Syndicate Stepmom s life endless Nightmare dear Abby since you asked for letters from stepmothers Here s my experience my marriage collapsed after Only a year and a half because of my 15-year-old Stepson a vicious hateful evil brat who became vindictive whenever he did t get his Way. He warned me before the wedding that he intended to make me miserable because Heddin t want his dad to marry me. I should have turned and run then but no the eternal Optimist in me thought every thing would turn out All right eventually wrong during the next year and half i got the usual you re not my Mother Back talk hateful looks and deliberate attempts to upset me such As sneezing or coughing across the dinner table without covering his Mouth and playing his dad and me against each other. He was relentless. He demanded almost nightly visit with his former school buddies across town a 50-mile round trip. He blamed his Friend s attempted suicide quibble dear Abby on us because since we moved away he could t Bethere for he carved up his bedroom furniture with a Bowie knife and destroyed the Glass on my expensive dining room table because he was mad at threw his cat across the room and called her a whore if she tried to sit on his Lap after allowing Meto pet her and kicked my dog if he thought i was t watching. The marriage was a horrible endless Nightmare that landed me in the Hospital and ruined my health. I am not blaming the boy completely for the breakup. My husband no More knew How to be a father than i knew How to be a Mother. But he always sided with his Sonand never put his foot Down 99 percent of our fights were about that kid. The moral of the Story if you value your health an sanity never marry anybody with a kid. Older and Wiser in Missouri dear older generalities Are dangerous but since my column is a trouble dump very few people write to Tell me How Happy they Are. 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