European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 17, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse Pago 72 a the stars and stripes wednesday november 17,1993. A i a a a a she May get taste of own Medicine today a crossword dear Ann Landers am writing in afro War to the Mother in Vancouver who Tucci Clcil to take a years vacation from her family f done to blame our Middle daughter was a tech Agar she left Home before finishing High school and gave us fits. She stayed out All night Hung out with unsavoury companions smoked pot and used Ltd do spite All the heartache we paid for four years of College and a Beautiful wedding and tried to be her friends but she is still at us for what she perceives As Over reaction to her earlier behaviour. Her Counselor has convinced. Her that she was abused. Last Spring she wrote letters to her four siblings her father and me and sent copies of the letters to each of us. She described our family As we responded by saying we were sorry if we had mistakes and hoped that we could put the unhappy past behind us. It seems however that she would prefer to hang on to old grievances and nurse grudges. Today a generation expects an awful lot from parents and in fact demands it. We know her life Wasny to perfect but the psychobabble dished out by the professionals docs nothing to heal the wounds. I Hope our daughter lives Long enough for her Darling son to give her the same kind of sleepless nights and anxious Days she has Given us. R distanced in Virginia Ann Landers dear . Don t wish ton hard. Chances Are he will and then you la feel guilty. An irrefutable Law of life is that what goes around comes around. V 1 dear Ann Landers i am divorced with two Small children. In be been dating a wonderful Man for two years. I am 33, and he is 27. Quot Chuck told me a year into the relationship that he smokes pot i was shocked. Up until that Point i thought he was the most nearly perfect Man id Ever met. When 1 asked him to Stop he said it Wasny to fair for me to ask him to give up something he enjoys. Chuck smokes Only a Little at night and on weekends and of course never in front of the children. I am uncomfortable around Chuck and his friends when they Start to Light up. My brother became mixed up with drugs at a Young age and i saw what it did to him. 1 done to know whether to lighten up and Hope he outgrows the pot smoking or get on with my life without him. Torn in Virginia dear . If Chuck smokes mat night and on weekends a he is a Bona fide pot smoker. So much for those who insist it is not addictive almost All users of hard drugs say they started with pot which they considered harmless. I cannot in Good conscience Tell you to Overlook chucks pot smoking and continue to. See him. Give him a Choice a you or the Weed. Letters to Ann lenders should be addressed to her at . Bos 11562, Chicago. In. 60611-0562.v c creators Syndicate snuff out that deadly habit a now a dear Abby every year you have been kind enough to devote a column encouraging our nations smokers to participate in the american cancer society a great american smok cout. Your support has helped millions of men and women across the country make the Effort to Uit smoking a at least for the a. Last year a number of your readers let us know that they were about to Quot kick the habit a for Good _ would you please Alert your readers again this year Stephen f. Sener m.d., president american cancer society dear or. Sener ill do it gladly. Dear readers tomorrow nov. 18, 1993, will Mark the 17th annual great american smoke out a one Day Campaign to encourage smokers to quit smoking for 24 hours just to quibble dear Abby prove they can do it. Last year 14 million smokers tried to quit for the Day. This represents 28 percent of the nations so million smokers. Breast cancer used to be the biggest killer for women. But the no. 1 cause of cancer death among women and men today is lung cancer. In fact women Are not quitting at the same rate As men. Therefore lung cancer is on the decline in men but on the in crease in women. And it is estimated that Early in the next Century More women will die of lung cancer than men. Tobacco claims one life every 13 seconds. An estimated 149,000 will die of lung cancer in 1993. And now a word about smoking related diseases a emphysema chronic bronchitis and heart disease this year an estimated 424,000 will die from one of these. This total exceeds the number of . Battle deaths in world War ii. Quitting Quot cold Turkey is the hardest Way to auit but my readers Tell me its the most effective Ana in the Long run the easiest. Those who need help to break their habit Call your local chapter of the american cancer society or Call 800 227-345 for information. Love Abby letters for ibis be addressed to Deer Abby Al . Boa 447, mount Morris Iii. 61054. 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