European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 28, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse Tuesday december 28, 1993 the stars and strikes Page 15 today s crossword dear Ann Landers i divorced my first husband 14 years ago. Our son was Only a year old at the time. 1 have since remarried. My former husband a Phil a has been living with a Penny a a very Nice woman for the last six years. We All get along and have no problem in regard to our son or anything weekend Phil married Penny my son was in the wedding party. Both my husband Andl were invited. My husband refused to go and said he understand How anyone could attend the wedding of a former spouse. I told him if the Bride did no to have a problem with it Why _ should 1? it Means a lot to my son that his dad and i get along. We be a big Effort to Ann Landers keep things peaceful. Well i went to philos wedding without my husband and had a Good time since then he has several snide it so unusual for divorced people to get along he thinks its weird. My husband reads your column every Day Ann. Please print this letter and help us put this Issue to rest. A harassed in Sacramento dear Sac i applaud your ability to maintain a civilized Urcla ton shop with your former spouse it Speaks Well for you both and to beneficial to your son. Your husband obviously feels threatened. I suggest that you Shore up his insecurity with an extra Dollop of tic and show him this column. It might help. Letters to Ann lenders should be addressed to her at . Bos 11562, Chicago Iii 606110562. C creators Syndicate be treats Given to dear Abby As a practising allergist i would like to make parents hosts and hostesses for Holiday and birthday parties aware that they should be extremely careful with children who Are allergic to various foods. I once had a Young boy As a patient who was severely 1% _ m f to _ a riot la a a aaa a la a dear Abby allergic to peanuts. He and his Mother regarded this with extreme caution but once while attending a birthday party his allergy proved fatal. His Mother had informed the hostess about a a Billy so allergy and strictly ordered that he not eat anything containing peanuts. The hostess agreed not to feed Billy any such food. Unfortunately other ladies were helping with the party. One handed out homemade Peanut butter cookies and insisted Billy try one. He tried to refuse but she insisted. Less than 30 minutes later Billy was dead. I want to use this horribly sad incident to warn anyone who is helping with children a activities to please be cautious with your own children As Well As other children. Anyone who hands out treats to children please be aware of the dangers involved. Make certain that the children you serve Are not allergic to any foods so they done tend up like Billy. Claude a. Frazier m.d., Asheville . Dear or. Frazier thank you for a warning that apply is All year around. In a printing your letter in the nope that once alerted other parents can prevent a similar tragedy., dear Abby i am in a bit of a dilemma and need your advice. My husband and i have been happily married for 10 years. I am 30 and my husband is 38, and we have three Beautiful healthy children. I have agreed to become a surrogate Mother for a married woman who has unsuccessfully tried to have a baby for 10 years. I have discussed this with my husband and he is agreeable. The and sperm will be the other Cou pies a they Are just using my body As an incubator. I will be paid $5,000 when my pregnancy is confirmed and $5,000 after the baby is born. All my pregnancies and deliveries have been relatively easy. When i told my Mother about this she said a have you ids your mind if you go through with this i done to want to see you in that i told her she could live her own life and let me live mine. Abby your column Isnit Long enough to describe the emotional abuse my Mother has put me through since All this started. What is your advice no name or town please dear no name i think the advice you gave your Mother a to live her own life and let you live yours a was sensible and to the Point. Surrogate motherhood is not about renting ones womb its about helping a woman fulfil her dream of motherhood. Lottery to this column Shoutd to address of to dear Abby at . To 447. Mount Morris. 1 1, 61054. Across 1 . 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