European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 30, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday december 30,1993 a dear Ann Landers you printed a letter from a new Jersey woman who wondered if she should say something to friends whose daughter was unmarried and pregnant and whose son contracted aids. Your response was Beautiful. You Fiand a phone cafe or note can be enormously helpful to people who Are struggling with problems t would also like to encourage support for those who have a family member accused or convicted of a crime. My family recently went through this experience. Most of my friends were too embarrassed to bring up the subject. I did no to want to leave the House Ann Landers for fear id run into someone i knew. Some mornings 1 could barely get out of bed and face the Day. When i began to receive notes of Comfort and encouragement discovered How remarkable the Healing Power of True Friendship can be. Please Tell your readers that any show of concern will in. The a a a a ble a says help. The simple sentence a a in a sorry about your Trou it All. Grateful in Wisconsin dear Wisconsin a Many people Are inclined not to say anything for fear they will cause embarrassment or open old wounds. Wrong. A word of compassion and encouragement is always appreciated. Dear Ann Landers my son in Law is a health Freak. He has spent a Small Fortune on exercise equipment and works out faithfully every Day but the Man is never without a can of Beer in his Tell your readers what Beer docs to their brains. Shrewsbury mass. Boyfriend wants to dear Abby. 1 have just had a huge argument with my Boyfriend that was very disturbing. We Are both 22. He is angry because i refused to let him read my diary. He said that when two people Are in love and we Are there should be no secrets from each other. Abby 1 done to write dark and Al dirty secrets in my diary i re Cord certain events and also express my feelings rather than keep them bottled up inside. It also helps me blow off steam and sort out my says a a that a what i m Here Forit he thinks if he reads my diary he can help me sort out my problems. He does t see that it makes me feel dear Abby quibble i Don t understand Hou the leadership in the fifi Tiv be 50 Una Tome of the fat Doit own at the unit Leleu it Don t Ufi Terstand How 1hh can at relate re Ociea that affect us so much Amo create 50 Hany aa06um War of aealih4& it. Must Knohl Whilt its Uke in times of woe dear Shrewsbury 1 have told them Many times but i Welcome the Opportunity to Tell them again. These arc the facts folks most Beer contains 2 percent to 6 percent alcohol. Usually drinking seven or eight cans of Beer will cause major impairment including irresponsible behaviour and difficulty in walking and talking. Alter 15 Beers most people will pass out. Tolerance to alcohol is unpredictable. Some people get cockeyed on one drink while others seem to have hollow legs with sponges in their toes dear Ann Landersman i respond to the woman whose 17-year-old daughter were having sex with her Boyfriend the Mother said the Media were partly responsible for her daughters morals. 1 am a 15-year-old girl who has been exposed to the same to shows music movies and publicity As that woman a daughter. I also have been pressured to have sex by some of the Guys in be dated. I have chosen to abstain until i am married and i stand firm by my Ducci Sion. Not All Young people Are sleeping around. I realize that Many of my friends Are no longer virgins but regardless of the excuses they give it was their Choice to go Down that Road. Granted the Media encourage premarital sex but the Bottom line is that we Are responsible for our own decisions. I done to know How Many people feel As i do but id like to say something to other teens. You never have to do anything you do not want to do to please someone else and nothing should be More important to you than your opinion of yourself. _ Independent in Texas dear indy. Teen readers will listen to one of their own. Thanks for sounding Oft. Letters to Ann Landers should to addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago i. 60611-0562. A a. C croat Ora Syndicate. Into _ matter How i try to reason with him he does no to understand. We really love each other but his insisting that he must know my most private thoughts is driving me away. What Are your thoughts on this private person dear private person this argument is not about your diary a it is about his need to deny you the right to have private thoughts. After you told your Boyfriend that his Reading your diary would be a violation of your privacy he should have backed off. In the words of Khalil Gibran when speaking of love �?o.,. Let there be spaces in a per he is your love interest a not your therapist. 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