European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 04, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Tuesday january 4, 1994 end zone pass throws up Barrier dear Ann Landers a few months ago my husband Roy and i went to a family gathering at his sister s House. As we were standing at the door saying goodbye to his sister he husband gently grabbed my behind. I say gently be cause although i was startled 1 did t jump or make any noise. No one was aware of what had happened. Some weeks later Roy told me he dreamed that this brother in Law had made a pass at me. I was dumbfounded and asked what prompted the dream. He said i have no i then told Roy what this brother in Law had done to me. He was furious but i persuaded him not to say a word to anyone for his sister s Sake. I m wondering if i did the right thing by telling Roy. It seems i have accomplished nothing except to make him despise his brother in Law and set up a Barrier when we Are in his presence. What do you say Ann second guess in . . Too bad you did t yell ouch when you Felt his hand on your behind and give the wretch the publicity he deserved. Now the Best thing to do is Tell Roy you Veann Landers forgiven the Horny idiot and plead with him to do like Wise so you can once again enjoy the family get Ogeth ers. Dear Ann Landers my husband and i Are having a problem with our son and his in Laws. Bill met Mary when he was 16. They were to Gether constantly. Mary s Mother even moved her family so Mary could be closer to Bill. Two years later when a Job change made it necessary for us to move 1,000 Miles away Mary s Mother invited Bill to live with them and go to College. We were against it but he was 18, and we could no longer Tell him what to do. Bill and Mary were married a year later and they live with her parents. Mary s Mother has become very hostile to us and thinks we should be sending Bill and Mary Money on a regular basis they Are both College students Bill has a Job my husband and i Aren t Rich but we both have Good jobs and have some savings. Are we morally obligated to Send these kids Money Walnut country in California dear Walnut country no you arc under no obligation to help these two. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to Hor at . Box 11562, Chi Cago Iii. 60611-0562. C creators syndicates Depover Boyfriend worries grandpa dear Abby i am a Middle aged divorced professional Man Lead ing a Busy Active Fife. A year and a half ago my eldest daughter Mary who is 33, separated from her Hus band so i invited Mary and her two Lively Grade school children to move into my Home. Mary is attending col lege and has Little outside income. I gave Mary the master bedroom and her kids the other bedroom on that floor and i moved into the basement recreation room. The situation is rather chaotic but i love them All. Here s the problem about four months ago Mary started going steady with John a businessman she s known for two years. Last month John started sleeping with her a couple of nights a week. Although i and the kids like John i am not overjoyed with his sleeping Here wit Mary since he will probably want to spend More and More time Here and i am concerned about the possible Adverse effect it might have on the children. Mary thinks her obvious warm relationship with Johnwill have a Good influence on the children. Is my concern warranted or am i just being old fashioned dear Abby grandpa dear grandpa your concern is indeed warranted and in my Opin Ion you Are not being old fashioned you arc being realistic. If your grandchildren Sec their Mother s boy Friend sleeping with their Mother they will think it s of. But it s not of for unmarried people to share bedroom openly in the presence of children. Dear Abby this is in response to Hurt in Euclid Ohio who was having difficulty getting her round Robin letter from Friend to Friend. I Learned that the Best Way to get a response is to Send a self addressed stamped envelope. My husband left his boots at my sister s Home when we visited them in another town. 1 wrote to her several times asking her to please Send my husband s boots Back. No boots. Finally i sent her an empty Box with our address and the proper postage on it and my husband got his boots Back with no further delay. Sue walkup Judd Searcy Ark. Dear sue a Wise move on your part. I also Learned Long ago that a self addressed stamped envelope immeasurably increases one s chances of getting a prompt reply to a letter. ,. / letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby at p 0. To 447, mount Morris. Iii. 61054. 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