European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 8, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 22 the stars and stripes tuesday february 8,1994 she s Happy to steer Clear of Kitchen dear Ann Landers this is in response to a a pinging like crazy in Tulsa who compared a Many a life to the Way a car runs. The writer maintained it was a a Many a  i laughed at the corny but cute comparisons. However i Challenge his statement a the most difficult task of a woman a life is to give up her  no woman i know would make this statement. L am the Mother of two College students who have left the nest. With just my husband and me at Home the Opportunity to a give up my Kitchen was not difficult at All. In fact it was liberating. Actually 1 consider my new found Freedom a Reward for a Job Well done. When my children come Home to visit i enjoy stocking up the fridge and fixing them their favorite dishes. But takeout and making reservations at restaurants look better and better As time goes by. A Friend gave me a sign that said a my next Home will have no Kitchen a just vending  it reflects my sentiments exactly. Linda in Florida dear Linda yours and that of millions of others. Thanks for the reality Check. I especially enjoyed the letter about How overblown children a birthday parties have become because very away dear Abby i heartily agree with Stan Ziegler when he wrote that children should scream when they Are in danger a or when they think they re in danger. Yes scream loudly and Long but there a another Side to this the Little girl next door to us screams so much that we no longer pay any attention to her screaming. Some parents evidently think its cute when their children screech in restaurants and stores. I even heard a proud Mother say to passers by in a store a that was her indoor scream. You should hear her outdoor scream a. Dear Abby not Only does indiscriminate screaming negate the Good that screams can accomplish when a child is in danger it endears neither the parents nor the child to. A those who have to listen to it. No name or town please dear  As soon As a child is old enough he or she should be made to. Understand that screaming for no reason whatsoever can pose a serious problem. Screaming dear Ann Landers i read you regularly in the Korea Herald Seoul. Your column is a link to Home for which i thank you. I am an american who has lived Here for eight years. Abr Lay a Little is made of them Here. It is the older people who Are feted. What a More the older you Are the bigger the Celebration. I recently observed my 60th birthday. My adopted a korean family took Over an entire restaurant to celebrate the occasion. The people Here Are wonderful and Seoul is such a Beautiful City. You ought to come and see for yourself. . Dear . I have been in Seoul. During the Vietnam War in 1967, i visited our wounded in the hospitals there. It was 102 in the Shade and there was no Shade but the City was  on your 60th. You picked a Good place to celebrate. Asian cultures Revere the elderly while in America we seem to worship at the shrine of youth. We spend billions of dollars annually on cosmetic surgery creams elixirs hair transplants and colouring a anything that might possibly Knock off a few years a Quot. Letters to Ann lenders should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago Iii. 60611 -0562. C creators Syndicate but Only in danger should be reserved for emergency situations when one needs help. Dear Abby As a conscientious dog owner i was upset to read about the incident recounted by or. Ziegler in his recent letter. There Are far too Many stray dogs and dogs that Are not under the full control of their owners. I also agree with or. Ziegler that screaming is an important defense tool for children. However it is important to note that dogs that Are not accustomed to being around children will a Evert the strangely around a screaming child. Aggressive dogs will react to a child a scream by attacking the child. Nathaniel d. Burgess los Angeles dear or. Burgess although i knew that dogs and other animals Are Quick to sense fear i was not aware that a dog would treat a screaming child As prey a but How else could a frightened child Call out for help most of us have read at least one nightmarish account of How a dog suddenly attacked a terrified child. A Good file to follow never leave a very Young child unattended. Letters or this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris Iii 61054. C Universal press Syndicate Loren will regard a screaming child As prey Mildest dog will become Tummy and act around a screaming child. 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