European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 4, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 24 the stabs and stripes wednesday May 4,1994 today a crossword dear Ann Landers. A i am a 60-Ycar-old woman. I believe my husband is having an affair with my sister who lives nearby her husbands work makes it necessary for him to travel a lot and i have a Strong Hunch that my husband goes to her apartment when he says he has to work late i have asked myself that famous Ann Landers question a would i be better off with or without him a and have come to the conclusion that i would be a fool to kick him out. Also i have no proof that an affair is actually going on. Nevertheless this whole thing is very disturbing an cd i need to know what to do about it. No name initials or City please. / a  old for this Monkey business dear . For . A do nothing for the time being. Keep your eyes and cars open. Make and accusations. If in Lime you have real evidence of Hanky Panky consult a Counselor regarding the Best course of action dear Ann Landers. My husband and i have been helping his parents out financially for quite some time. We make their monthly car payments and give them extra Money for incidentals. Ann i  mind if i thought our help was needed or appreciated. We have a new baby and a lot of expenses we never had before. My in Laws have never once said a thank you for anything. Meanwhile they spend $20 every week on lottery tickets. My husband has  Brothers who Don t do one blessed thing for their parents. His folks apparently feel its easier for us because we make a Little More Money than the others. A. A a a a my husband insists that his parents Are. proud to say  i say if they can manage to forget their Pride Long enough to accept $5,000 a year from us., they should be Able to express some gratitude. Am 1 out of line 1 need an outside opinion. What do you say j fort Lauderdale dear Lauderdale your husband needs. To grow up and Stop being a schnook. His first obligation is to you and the baby. Since his parents do not need the financial help he should Stop throwing it at them. Dear Ann Landers. ,. A. A this is for Quot offended in Wisconsin a a who when she went into an antique shop to browse was asked to leave her purse at the counter. You thought it was an insult the implication being that she might be a shoplifter. Here Are  signs that i have seen in antique shops around the country. 1 doubt that the intent was to suggest theft but rather the possibility of accidental breakage. In temp Ariz Quot please restrain your handbag As Well As your children. Being bumped in Here does no to mean skinned Knees or Hurt feelings. It Means death to a priceless  y in Portland Ore a please allow us to have temporary custody of your parcels and handbags. While most breakage is accidental it is always  a realist in san Bernardino dear realist of course you arc right. The face with the egg on it is a mine. A. A a a a  a a a a a a a a a a a a. A \ a letters to Ann Landers should to addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago Iii 60611-0562.a a a. A a a. A. A c creators Syndicate. Cabinet Booby trap o childish idea dear Abby a Why on Earth would anybody want to Embarrass a guest for daring to open the Medicine Cabinet did it Ever occur to hosts that a guest May have a legitimate reason to open the Cabinet sure there arc snoops who May be curious about your Pri Vale life and drug abusers who Are looking for prescription drugs. But what about guests who Are looking for mouthwash because there was  touch. Garlic in the dip or someone  lotion aspirin or dental Flossie there arc personal items _ j such As medications a cosmetics a. Or contraceptives they  be in Medicine cab incas when guests Are expected. To Booby trap a Medicine Cabinet with marbles that will come tumbling out and make a Racket to deliberately Embarrass someone is childish and rude. If somebody did that to me i would also walk out of dear Abby the House a never to return. Denny in Boulder dear Abby will you please help me inform people that they should never talk to or pet a seeing Eye dog these dogs Are working and when they Are distracted they can to help the person they were trained to assist. This is a constant problem for people who have seeing Eye dogs. -. A. A a  some people say if you ask the owner if it is of to pet their dog it puts them in an awkward position because they hate to say no. Is it of to talk directly to the sightless person about his or her dog a. A Karen Flynn 13, Azle Texas dear Karen you Are right. When people Sec a person with a Sec ing Eye dog they should understand it is pot just another person with his or her pet the dog is working. A comment such As a my what a Beautiful or Well trained dog is permissible but beyond that no questions please. / letters Tor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris 11161054. A a a. A. A a. C Universal press Syndicate a across 1 cartoon eave boy 4 a bread Quot. 8 Quot animal. A House Quot House. 12 stashed 13 met Melody 14 California. City a. 15 expert 16 acropolis attraction 43 peevish fit 44 a  a killer 46 rubber Type 50 Board game a 55 Hearty laughter syllable 56 frenzied 57 first a. Name of -60 across 58 neighbor of mex. 16candidate 59compfex of 1992 20 when evening begins 21 Santa a. Paperwork 24 apportions 28 let off. 32 Quot persistence of. Memory Quot Painter a 33 carnival City a a 34 puts Tia Kibosh on .36 Glutton. .37 tote Board a tally a 39 Spaghetti. Sprinkle. 41 famed do. Hostess Ion woe 60 noted. Actor a Mono log isl 61 pen Down. 1 Bloke. 2 wadding Shower 3 River to the Neisse 4 photo copy 5 coach Parseghian 6 round. Table address 7 jobs or roles figuratively 8 Bent 9 movie director howard10 fuss 11 Bronze. Ingredient 17 that Man 19 in need of repair 22 Quick Cut 23 largest solution time 28 mine. Ata 0ej 00 Tats of do a Soo Sama 000130 d0jq 0 urn 000i a i 0 0 Ess 0bq d0h0. 0 0 is Asa 000 00 p3 a �00 @0 yesterday s answer 5-4 state pre-1959 25 Quot lights out tune 26 lambs pen name 27 affix your. John a Hancock 28 Ball in a gymnasium 29 Helper 30 curtain needs 31 Bruce or Quot Laura 35 a reaction. A some a people have to cheese a 38 Library array 40 greek h 42 Baj material 45 Summit 47 Ergo 48 it s right on the map 49 the picture of health 50 Law Bolivia. 51 a Blue Quot 52 nonsense 53 or. Whitney 54 a remo1 a ii m a 29 30 33 37 s1. 5a 54 cryptoqu1p i d x y d v y. A x s y g g r q z p q x z f f m is z s k re a Zuj cd up p k or x y1 g g o f r f z a m a a a. A yesterday s crypt pulp after All d1ctionar-1e$ were stolen blanched librarian was at a loss for words. Today a crypt pulp due y equals c. Ali a a is airy a a a. Quibble a i can t get 56t mom to Stod me of Tow respect. She keeps calling me a dlr Fiall. Is that f00r-prongec> design of yours used for uhf or vhf reception