European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 10, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Tuesday May 10, 1994 the stars and stripes Page 21 about crooked Groom today a crossword v it v. Dear Ann Landers id like to respond to a worried sick in n.j.,�?� whose con Man brother a Eben a was about to marry a Lovely girl a a worried wanted to know if the girl should be warned. I was stunned when you told her to ten years ago i was engaged to marry two weeks before the wedding my father voiced his suspicions. When i assured dad that Dan was in excellent financial shape he told me Dan had borrowed $1,000 from him to buy me an. Engagement present. The truth was that Dan spent Only $100 on that gift. The year i live with Dan he was always Able to explain away All the questions i had raised about his honesty. When i Learned about the loan from my father 1 decided to look in Danes desk drawers for More a information a i found out his car had been repossessed not stolen As he claimed that he had made charges on my credit card to the limit and Hadnot made any payments that he had been stealing my mail and that be had not worked in months although we celebrated several when it became Clear that Dan was a con Man and a compulsive liar 1 called off the wedding. It took me years to pay off the debts he incurred including a big Ann Landers one for my engagement and wedding rings. So please Ann readers ask about tipping off someone who is about to marry a a walking Tsas Ter a done to discourage them and Hope someone else will make the move. A. A suffered but spared in Santa Monica dear a a a a. V of course you arc right. I caught unprecedented world class flak for my senseless response. I plead temporary insanity caused by work overload and am now urging a a worried to speak out promptly and expose Ben for the liar that he is. Dear Ann a ,. I am a widow observing my first wedding anniversary without my beloved husband. I have received one card and one phone Call. In be sent Many cards to widowed friends hut no More. In be had it. I say a wait until the shoe is on the other alone in Arizona dear Arizona Here san old chinese proverb Worth remembering a those who do a kindness because they expect to be repaid Are always a a letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . To 11562, Chicago Iii. 60611-0562 a a. A. C creators Syndicate. 1 riches await Between pages of books dear Abby your quote from the late . Hayakawa concerning the value of Good literature reminded Etc of How Rich my own life has been i have never been my father raised six children on $10.50 a week for 55 hours of work a week until the great depression and then there were weeks when Only an occasional Day of work could be found and usually the pay was Only 50 cents for that Day. There were times when there was no food in the House and our father made us Wash and Iron our one Good Cotton dress or Khaki suit and Wear it to Church on sunday and to school the rest of the week. When i was 9, i discovered the Public Library three Miles from my Home and had a wonderful experience with Alice in through the looking Glass. A a. A a a a a a a a a As i grew older i dulled with Rafael sabatinis 5car-Amouche, Rode with Zane Greys riders of the purple Sage laughed with Damon Runyon a Guys and does and travelled All Over the world. Because i could read i have never been poor. Howard Childress Murfreesboro Tenn. Dear Abby dear Howard Childress 1 was once asked a if you could give children Only one piece of advice what would it be a my response a read read read in Reading you will open up new worlds real and imagined. Read for information. Read for pleasure. Our libraries arc filled with knowledge and Joy and its All there a free for the taking. The person who does not read is no better Oft than the person who cannot dear Abby i read the letter in your column from a frustrated a whose wife had a Low sex drive and your response was that maybe holding Down a full time Job and mothering three preteen children left her worn out and her husband should consider giving her a Day off now and then and help her with the housework and children Abby that is one of the most sexist things you have Ever said. Did you consider that he might already be doing that no you assumed that he sits on his butt All evening watching to while his wife does All the work. 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