European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 23, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Monday May 23,1994 dear Ann Landers that letter signed a growing uneasy in la Quot could have been mine. She asked whether she should marry a Greg a a great companion and Lover but not eager to look for work. The Only difference Between her and me is that its too late for me. In a already married to  -7 v a. A a 7 a in be spent a lot of time and Energy trying to motivate encourage and psych out my husband but nothing works. He a had a few jobs but they did no to last Long. I was raised to stick with my commitments so divorce is out. But when i think of myself growing old and Gray and broke i wonder if having an errand boy a few laughs and Good sex is Worth it. Tell a growing uneasy to find someone else before she gets stuck with an Albatross. Caretaker in a. Dearva v 77 7. V ,7= i did and i really got clobbered by the male establishment of North America they labelled me a a female chauvinist oink  read on for a closer look at what in be been getting. From new Orleans that woman who makes $65,000 a year pays All expenses and gives Greg an allowance should not have been criticized. Greg she said is attractive intelligent a great Lover and totally faithful. He runs errands and helps with the marketing cooking dear Abby As a medical assistant in a foot clinic i was appalled recently when a patient explained Why her feet were in such bad shape. The Little toes on both feet were swollen and red from the High heeled shoes she must Wear on her Job. She is an airline stewardess and the airline for which she works requires its female staff to Wear High heeled pumps while on duty on the plane. A 7 As a result this woman must cram her feet into these shoes for five and six hour shifts while she must smile and be polite. I personally would not care if she wore Tennis shoes but she says that a out of the question. I am furious that the airlines would be so pitifully image conscious and sexist As to require such foolish footwear for women. The patient told me that her company will allow her to Wear a Dressy Flats if she produces a letter from her doctor. So Abby for the Benefit of All female airline stewardesses please print your opinion of this regulation. 7 7 a a. A .7 a appalled in Beaverton Ore. Quibble dear Abby and cleaning. It the. Question was asked a is he a Lazy parasite Quot Why Isnit a woman who stays at Home considered a a Lazy parasite Quot whereas your sense of fairness a Chicago what kind of sexist garbage Are Vou handing out these Days Here is a decent Well behaved Man who treats his woman beautifully and helps around the House and the Only problem is he does t have a Job. If tie situation were reversed and a Man had written that letter you would have told him to shut up and count his blessings. 7 a a a before equal rights women stayed at Home and men supported them. I never heard a Man complain. A growing uneasy should reel that Guy in before someone else grabs him. 7a. Dallas Hubby works gives his wife an allowance sleeps with her and treats her beautifully. That used to describe the average american marriage. Feminism has done women More harm than Good and that letter from a growing uneasy in ,�?� is a perfect example of How the disciples of Gloria Steinem and Betty inc Dan have done themselves in. Los Angeles if women arc to be liberated from housework men should be freed from unrealistic expectations of financial Block busting. Not every woman is Suzy homemaker and not every Man is Bill Gates be fair for lords Sake. Quot so dear readers id say the males made a pretty Good Case for themselves today letters to Ann binders should be addressed to her at . Box 11562 Chicago hi.60611-0562. A a a a a a a a a. A a a a a. A a a a c creators Syndicate  needs a Boot dear appalled i have done a lot of lying and i know of no airline that requires its Light attendants to Wear High heeled shoes while flying. Mark Abies vice president of communications at Northwest airlines told me that the Only shoe requirements his airline has for female Light attendants arc that the heels be Va-2 inches High and the shoes Black. Attendants can Wear higher heels if they choose. By the Way flight attendants have not been called a a stewardesses since Eddie Rickun Backer was the first president of Eastern airlines. Dear Abby Quot i am a 25-year-old happily married woman with a Little one on the Way. I too am a thumb sucker but i done to just suck my thumb at night i suck my thumb when driving the car or Reading a Book. I find it very relaxing and it sure beats alcohol or pills. I recently quit smoking and my thumb comes in Handy when i get the urge to smoke. Kristen in Schenectady , Lenars for this column should be addressed to dear Abb Alp o Box 447 mount Morris Iii. 61054. A a /. A. C  the stars and stripes today a crossword across 1 Farrier s Horn 5 Circle Section 8 Meg a to maniacal Captain 12 spicy Stew. 13 Shell game prop 14 Pedestal occupant 15 act the robot .16 particular 16 fame20 quite 7 21 Quot a director 23 new Haven. A collegian 24 tree on a trellis 28 Johns missus 31 Guys companion 32 handling Sites. 34 fresh 35 Estival nuisance 37 advocacy 39 nevertheless briefly 41 Green and 42 a record amount of Money 45 Dickens based musical 49 Coffee. Variety 51 pol base 52 Shock deeply. 53 Sandy comment 54 Oklahoma. City 55 Kickoff. Prelim. 56 not neg. 57 Sandra. And Ruby Down 1 syst Attebe fore step or Stop 2 czech German River 3 mortgage 4 Baltimore. 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