European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 3, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 30 the stars and stripes Friday june 3, 1994 St. Louis wife is dear Ann Landers Quot i guess you would Call me a husband beater but that does not mean i am a violent person. The problem is realty my husband. A a Ike is As Macho As anyone you will Ever meet. When we were first married he ordered me around a lot. If i did no to do what he wanted he would shove me. He did no to actually hit me or anything but he was physically rough. I noticed that when Ike was angry with me he would be especially rough in bed. I told him i did t like that kind of treatment but he insisted it was All in fun and kept on pushing me. Finally i decided to fight Back. 1 was a Good athlete in school and used to rough House with my Brothers. In a also a runner and in pretty fair shape. When Ike shoved me again i let him have it. It turned into a real fight and i beat the tar out of him. I have never seen him so mad. Over the next few months he started a few More fights and i beat him every time. The Bottom line is our marriage is much better now. St. Louis woman dear woman if it works for you Fine but in a not recommending it. Hand to hand combat is not my idea of the Way to let off steam or solve differences. One of these Days somebody is going to get Hurt. Dear Ann Landers. Recently on a packed elevator a Man raised his Arm above my head and attempted to guess my height at �?o4 feet  it is obvious that i am not 5 feet tall this Isnit the first time i have been singled out by some Ann Landers hard to beat strange Jerk making a joke about my size. I asked the clod a do you have a problem a he was embarrassed and replied of not at All. I just happen to have an aunt who is about your  by the time i finished with him in a sure he wished head never had an aunt. I realize there s no Way to escape this sort of thing but if you print my letter maybe just one person will see him or a Erscle and save a few of us from this kind of harassment. A half pint in Shreveport la. Dear la a person who would comment to a stranger on an elevator about his or her weighty height or other personal attributes has the . Or a House Plant. It is Best to ignore such a clod. Dear Ann Landers May i add my experience to those who have shared the uncanny a a Wisdom of their pets we recently painted the bedroom of our 2-year-old daughter  my sister in Law insisted on taking. Melinda to her House for the night claiming that the Strong smell of paint could be harmful. The next morning our Dalmatian Carlo came Halfway Down the stairs. He was whining and alerting me to the fact that something was wrong. I followed Carlo to the bedroom As he Drew my attention to Melinda a empty bed. Even after i told him it was of he insisted on guarding the empty bed until she returned Home. A Montreal Quebec dear Montreal if animals could talk they would Tell us plenty. They Are smarter than we think. Thank you for a delightful Story. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . To 11562, Chicago lil. 60611-0562. A a a a a a c creators Syndicate. Today a crossword police should dear Abby i was recently followed on the freeway by a male Driver who stayed directly behind my car through a series of Lane changes and Speed changes. I went from suspicious to nervous to really scared As i realized that he was indeed following me. He then followed me off the freeway and through a series of turns while i searched in vain for a police station. I could find absolutely no signs indicating the location of the police station sheriff or Highway patrol. Finally i pulled into a business where there were a number of men standing outside. After slowing to Survey the situation the pursuer drove. On. Abby Why done to police stations have More signs indicating their location also the sheriff and Highway patrol ? without a car phone it could be dangerous to quibble a or. Out Colv Loave up i thought i Yalj some move most in a me 605me13 dear Abby Stop to Call 911. Your readers would Benefit from some advice on the Best course of action if they Are pursued on the Road. Desperately seeking the police station dear desperately i Hope that Law enforcement and transportation departments everywhere will take note of your suggestion for better police a locator  its a Good idea. Incidentally the California Highway patrol said that you acted appropriately when you were being pursued on the Road. You headed for a lighted populated area kept your car doors locked and the windows rolled up left a a space Cushion around your car for easier Maneule ability and were Alert to strangers. Most important if you arc faced with weapons surrender your vehicle calmly without a fight. 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