European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 4, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Relax and pretend you re Colo Blind dear Ann Landers please print your answer As soon As possible. My daughter a sch Cryll is getting married soon and we need your advice to Settle a big argument. Cheryl called her future Mother in he and told her that i had chosen the. Color Black for my dress. My. Daughter asked her to please keep that in mind when she shopped for her dress. A week later Cheryl s future Mother i Law called her and said a i just bought the perfect dress to Wear at the. Wedding,1�?T Cheryl asked a what color is it Quot the answer was �?oblack.�?�. Cheryl asked a Why did you buy Black 1 told you my Mother is wearing the woman re. Plied a what s the difference if we have the same color a my daughter said a because proper protocol says the brides Mother has the Choice of color.�?�. A. A a her Mother in Law yelled a if it was two pinks or two Bues Dhen maybe yes but Black is not a Ann will you please print the code of ethics and Ann Landers proper protocol regarding wedding attire Mother gets first Choice also is it improper Jot both mothers to Wear the same color. _ Cheryl and i Are very upset that her future Mother in Law is coming on so Strong. She must feel that just because her husband is paying for the wedding we have no say in it. We need your advice. Battling in Brooklyn dear Brooklyn actually it s the Bride who should decide on the colors to be worn at her wedding it sounds however As if Cheryl s future Mother in Law is not one to go by the Book. If you re interested however a the books says Black is not appropriate for the Mother of the Bride or the Mother of the Groom i say its not Worth fighting about. Let the. Old Battle a Wear whatever she wants and you do he some. If you both Wear Black so w hat the important thing is that Yon All get along and not spoil the brides Day. Letters to Ann lancers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago Iii. 60611-0562. Quot a c creators Syndicate a multiple myths about schizophrenia dear Abby please do another Good turn for the mental health Community by educating the Public a especially those in the news Media a with regard to the word it is not a synonym for a Quot split personality a nor does it mean a More than one a a. Recently i have read that we have a schizophrenic architecture a a schizophrenic policies and a schizophrenic teaching although the characteristics of schizophrenia Are too numerous to publish in your column the general description includes delusions hallucinations incoherence and grossly dear inappropriate behaviour. Abby neither i nor any of my colleagues have Ever seen a schizophrenic person who has a a split multiple personality disorders Are an entirely different category of mental illness. Sign me clinical social worker Portland dear clinical social worker thank you for an enlightening letter. If one were to ask 10 persons to define a schizophrenia a nine out of 10 would respond a a person with a split the definition according to the 10th edition of Mer Riam websters collegiate dictionary is a a psychotic disorder characterized by loss of con tact with the environment by noticeable deterioration in the level of functioning in everyday life and by disintegration of personality expressed As disorder of feeling thought As in hallucinations and delusions and a dear Abby i have read your column for years and enjoy it very i have yet to see you educate your readers regarding women a names after marriage. If Mary Jane Jones marries John Jay Rockefeller her options Are 1. Remaining Mary Jane Jones a or using her former name if she was previously married and had taken her husbands last name. 2. Changing her name to maty Jane Rockefeller 3. Changing her name to Mary Jones Rockefeller. 4. Hyphen Ting Mary Jane Jones Rockefeller. 5. Using dual names Mary Jane Jones professionally and Mary Jane Rockefeller socially. Ones a Legal name is the one that the person chooses to use and is not necessarily the husband s surname once they Are married. Please Tell your readers about these options and urge them to respect the persons wishes a despite their personal beliefs. In a signing my name but if you publish my letter please sign me attorney in Ohio dear attorney thanks for a helpful letter. The custom of the wife taking the name of her husband originated in biblical times when Matrimony made a woman her husbands letters Tor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447. Mount Morris 111.61054. C Universal press syndicates. 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