European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 6, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 26 the stars and stripes monday june 6, 1994 help needed to heal what daddy did today a crossword dear Ann Landers i am the Mother of a Bright Beautiful Little girl. Until a year ago a a Sherry could have taken on the world without looking Back. Now she is a Shadow of what she once was. This delightful self confident child has been turned into a sad eyed mouse afraid of everything. The reason for the change she was sexually molested by her father. Sherry described to me in detail what her father did to her. But that is not Good enough for the state. My hands Are legally tied. The state wont even investigate the Case because my Little girl is frightened to death to say anything against her father and without her testimony there is no Case. Parents teach their children to say a a not to anyone who touches them a wrong a but it is very difficult to get the message across when the perpetrator is the child a own father. Children arc raised to think daddy is perfect. If i refuse him visitation rights i will be in trouble with the Law. Sherry smother dear Mother get Sherry into couns cling at once. With the proper guidance and emotional support she will be Able to Tell an investigator what her daddy did to her. When the truth is known if the Justice systems works he will no longer have unsupervised visitation rights. Dear Ann Landers while cleaning out my desk drawer 1 found the enclosed column. I think it is very touching and Worth Ann Landers printing again. Your column is no. 1 with our family. Fort Lauderdale fans dear fans thank you so much. I Hope my teen age readers will realize that this is especially for them. My Darling daughter or son Ever since you were a baby knowing where you were meant knowing you were Safe. You grew from being Safe in the House to being Safe in the Yard on the Block in the neighbourhood and now in the whole world. Knowing you Are Safe is still my major concern. Remember when you were Little and came Home from school and 1 Wasny to there you called All the phone numbers you knew. When i finally got Home you said in your most grown up voice Quot where have you been a you weren to meddling you were frightened. When you did no to know where i was your Security was threatened. I done to mean to be Nosy. I want to give you As much Freedom As possible. But the Only Way i can do this is if i know where you Are and when you la be Home. My responsibility for you will end one Day and my insecurity will also be gone. In its place will be Confidence and love. Asking where you Are going and when you la be Home is mom talk. It really Means Quot i love you and i Hope you la be your answer when translated from child talk Means a Tilove you your mom dear mom you be expressed the thoughts of millions of parents of teen agers today and i thank you letters to Ann Landers should to addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago Iii. 60611-0562. A. A a c creators Syndicate giving to Church should stay private dear Abby you told Quot churchgoer in Plano Texas Quot while the person who gives to the Church once a year May be very generous those who see him passing the Basket without putting anything in May assume he a giving nothing which sets a poor example for without appearing sanctimonious May i Point out How Jesus instructed us to give Quot so when you give to the needy do not announce it with trumpets As the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets to be honoured by men. I Tell you the truth they have received their Reward in full. But when you give to the needy do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing so that your giving May be in see Cret. Then your father who sees what is done in secret will Reward Matthew 6 2-4 Abby i am one of the few who count the collection after Church each week. We do not care who gives dear Abby monthly weekly a or never. The Only reason we keep track of How much individuals give is to provide them with income tax statements at the end of the year. Janet Saulter Hemmer United methodist Church Boonton . Dear Janet Saulter Hemmer you were not the Only Reader who was critical of my response to read on dear Abby a woman at our Church once told the Church Secretary that Quot so and so who sat near her rarely put anything in the collection plate. The Secretary wisely told her that so and so gave monthly a and Why did it matter to her giving is private Gladstone to. Dear giving i blew it big time. Letters for this column should to addressed to dear Abby at . 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