European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 4, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Monday tuesday july 4/5, 1994 the stars and stripes Page 33 Shadow on marriage today a crossword dear Ann Landers my husband is a successful lawyer. We be been mar Rich for 25yqars. Last Spring a a Joe had an affair with sunny. I became suspicious when the notations a weath or a sunny or a sunny Day began to appear in his appointment Book always at lunch time or late in the afternoon. When i confronted Joe he said a yes we did have Art af-y7t�?�fair but its been Over for sever Al months. In fact i introduced her to our accountant. They hit __3kj it off on the first Date and Are now  last week sunny announced that she and the accountant Are getting married. She had the a Quot. A Gall to ask Joe if he would give her away at a Church wedding this is her third in my opinion,.this would look mighty strange since a great Many people know about their affair. Id appreciate your advice i d West woman dear Midwest i would say Joe has pushed your generosity and for Ann Landers in dear Abby concerning the woman who thought her husband should Wear trousers instead of shorts while vacationing in Europe during the past 10 years my husband and i have vacationed in England France Austria Switzerland Germany and Hungary during the hot summer months. We have both worn walking shorts not Short shorts jogging shorts or cutoffs and not once have we been denied admittance to any museum or Church. However we were not allowed to enter two churches because our Heads were not covered. Jean Ann Robison Oklahoma City dear Abby giving spirit to the outer limits. Tell him a no  you be had enough humiliation. I suggest that you and Joe be conveniently out of town. Dear Ann Landers what do you think of mothers in supermarkets who pick up an Apple or a banana to. Give their toddlers while they Are marketing done to they realize that this is the same As shoplifting furthermore How do they explain to Junior that its of to grab a Bunch of grapes but not the Candy bar that a within reach at the checkout counter please print this. The problem is rampant and is costing the merchant Money. S a irate in Washington . Dear . Mothers who do this should offer to pay in a voice loud enough for their children to hear. And they should follow through without fail children arc great mile a tors Quot a a. ,. A a a. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago 1. 60611-0562.a Quot a a c creators Syndicate a dear Jean Ann Robison after receiving your letter i consulted my travel agent who said a years ago there was a dress code but not today. However in Rome they still do not permit Halter tops in houses of worship. Also because most europeans consider dining out to be something special the better restaurants require a tie and jacket after 5 p.m., which makes their dress code even stricter than that of the  readers two More letters from those who sided with the husband dear Abby v. Times have changed. In 1992,1 was allowed into Ste. Chepehe and notre Dame in Paris and also into various restaurants museums and cathedrals in shorts and Polo shirts during the sweltering Summers. Still i  try to get into the tour Eiffel restaurant with out Slacks jacket and tie. Some of the better restaurants a and some cathedrals will lend those who need them a jacket and tie. Recent traveler dear Abby. With regard to men wearing shorts while vacationing in Europe Over the past 75 years i have noted Many changes in dress. I remember helping my father Button his spats a in the Days when a a informal meant a Black  now during the summer a shirt and no jacket is the typical dress in even three Star restaurants. But one Rule has not changed with time one must always be neat and clean. The British have always recognized tropical dress. Their summer military uniforms Are Short pants with knee length socks. When i go Cycle touring in Europe i Wear White Short pants and White , and i have yet to be refused Entrance to any hotel or restaurant. A -. A. A. Female attire however is an entirely different Story. It can be from next to nothing to a Complete cover up. Many years ago i was invited to a formal dinner at the Home of a Friend on the Avenue Foch in Paris. The required dress White tie and kid gloves. A most charming Young lady arrived wearing a jew eled necklace and Ruby and Diamond anklets. That was All. She May have worn sandals but i honestly do not remember. Pierre Cordell Reeh Metairie la. Letters Lor this column should be address of to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris Iii 61054. 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