European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 27, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Pago 24 the stars and stripes wednesday july 27,1994 just think of it As a guesting game today crossword dear Ann Landers my Mother is planning a baby Shower for me and has asked for a guest list. The problem is my husbands parents Are divorced and both have remarried. My sister in Law and Mother in Law do not get along with my father in Laws wife  i am especially close to my Mother in Law but i also have a Good relationship with Ginny and i want to keep it that Way. If i done to invite her to the Shower she will be offended. If i do invite her my Mother in Law and sister in Law will never forgive  women cannot be in the same room without getting into a fight. In a afraid if any one of them learns that tie other two Are invited to my Shower none of them will come. 1 very much want them All.  you think they would put aside their differences for just one Day for my Sake what do you suggest pregnant and pondering in Pennsylvania dear preg. And Pond the old Ann Landers Law of social survival goes like this if you arc having a party wedding Clambake or bar Mitzvah invite everyone you would like to attend. Pay no attention to who is mad at whom. It is not your problem. The real losers Are those who choose not to Ann Landers show up because they heard that someone they arc not speaking to will be there. Dear Ann Landers i live alone in a Triplex in West los Angeles. I love my apartment and done to want to move. I am however having a problem with my landlords. 1 have two messes. A and b often come into my apartment when i am at work. I have explained that i would like to be Given 24 hours notice if they plan to enter my apartment but they have ignored my request. It happened again today. I asked my Mother to wait in my apartment for the Telephone repairman and a plumber let himself in and scared her almost to death. Obviously the landlords gave the plumber permission and a  enter 1is there a Law against this. A a a a. A. A a. A West . Dear West . According to Chicago attorney David sugar landlords generally have no right to let themselves into a leased apartment without the tenants prior approval except in emergency situations or to make necessary repairs a either to your apartment or an adjoining one. Laws vary from state to state however and you should review your lease before confronting your landlords. The lease will probably spell out the circumstances in which someone can enter your apartment. A letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago 111. 60611 -0562. / a a a. C creators Syndicate. A. Slips of Tongue Don t trip up pair dear Abby concerning widows and widowers who after having been married for a Long time marry again it is Only natural to Call their new spouses by the names of their former spouses. My name is Barbara. 1 was happily married for More than 50 years to Fred. After Fred passed away i married Frank and i cannot count the number of times i have called Frank  Frank had been married to a woman named Ethel for Many years and he has called me Ethel any number of times. Did i get angry heavens no we made an agreement to just overtook it and we get along very Well. We Are both 81 and grateful _ that we found compatible mates a a / a the second time around. We also display pictures of our departed mates on the Walls in the Home we now occupy and we both enjoy them. Barbara s., Delray Beach Fla. Dear Barbara you and Frank Are two sensible people who Are fortunate to have found each other. Most people who dear Abby marry again after having lived Many years with a former mate have experienced the embarrassment of calling the new mate the name of the previous mate. Its natural and quite forgivable. If they can both laugh about it All the better. But do pay special attention while in the throes of ecstasy. A ooh Darling a would he a Good habit to form. Dear Abby in a responding to the letter from the Mother of a roman Catholic priest who complained about the Way women Chase after priests and ministers embracing them with warm hugs. We All need affection and 1 would bet that they were probably married women who get Little or no affection from their husbands units they the husbands Are after them for something else. I was married to the same Man for nine years and rarely was i Able to hug a or even touch him in a Tov ing Way a without him trying to get me to jump in the sack. A a. A at least if you embrace a minister or priest you have some Assurance that you can embrace them   affection in Portland Ore. Lettera Tor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, a mount Morris Iii. 61054. C Universal press Syndicate across 43 Fork 1 fun a no Choice games 44 Yule quaff 4 spilled the 46 Calgary Beans Stampede 8 Gin . 12 a like tool 50 failed Grid squad 2 tend texts 3 despot 4 snore a 5 census statistic 6 diarist. 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