European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - August 29, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 20 the stars and stripes monday August 29,1994 tickling fetish not funny to victim today s crossword dear readers i am on vacation but i have left behind some of my favorite columns that you May have missed the first time around. I Hope you enjoy them. Ann Landers dear Ann Landers please Settle our first fight. Bud and i have been " dating for four months and i really love him. The problem is. That lately he has become a tick Ling maniac. At first i thought it was funny but now he s driving me crazy. Last night he actually tied my hands and held me in a chair while his Best Friend took off my shoes and Hose and tickled the Bottom of my feet with a Feather for what seemed like an eternity. When they finally untied me i used some words i did t know i knew. Now Bud is mad at me and says i made a big scene Over nothing. I claim that what he did was not Normal. He says i m the one who is loony. It took me months to get this Guy of notice me and ask me out. This first fight is killing me. What do you make of it still rattled dear still rattled your Dreamboat has a Streak of sadism an Inch thick and a Yard wide. To tickle for fun for a few seconds is of. But to tic a girl s hands and invite a buddy in As part of the act is pretty sick stuff and you d better recognize it now before the Kook graduates to whips and chains. Ann Landers dear Ann Landers my husband is so mad at my father he d like to kill him. Here s what happened two years after we were married Harvey suffered a dizzy spell and had severe Chest pains. We called my father a physician in. The Middle of the night. Dad examined Harvey and told him he had a heart problem. He instructed Harvey to take it easy and Cut out All strenuous activity. This meant giving up handball and Tennis. It also made a serious Dent in our sex life. Harvey was so afraid of dying while having sex that he was impotent most of the time. Two weeks ago Harvey caught the flu. My father was out of the country so we called another doctor who put har vey in the Hospital until he was better. While he was there he decided to Nave a Complete physical. Harvey was seen by six doctors and received a perfect Bill of health. When we asked specifically about his heart problem we were told that his heart is perfect. This so baffled us that the following week we flew to the Mayo clinic and Harvey was seen by a top cardiologist. The report was no heart problem and no evidence that there Ever was  when my husband thinks of the years he has wasted being careful he could wring my father s neck. What should we do about this eight years kaput dear eight nothing. The original diagnosis was Worth what your husband paid for it. It s always a Good idea to get an other medical opinion. Even a doctor who in t related can be wrong. Totters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chi Cago Iii 60611-0562. C creators Syndicate husband makes joke of marriage editor s note dear Abby is on a two week vacation. Following is a selection of some of her favorite past letters from the Early 1970s. Dear Abby my husband of 15 years suddenly has decided that marriage is a trap and he wants out. He wants his own apartment so he can come and go As he pleases. Not divorced mind you he just wants to be free to do As he pleases a Wise Friend suggested a cheaper Way. Give him the spare bedroom and let him do As he pleases. The idea appealed to my husband and that is what he is doing now this Friend told me to let my husband have his flings and have a Ball and in time he will get tired of it and come Back to me. In the meantime i should be pleasant and uncomplaining and be a Good Mother to our two teen agers. Dear Abby my problem How can i endure the pain of seeing him come and go As he pleases can you give me a few pointers on How to put up with this when my heart is aching lonely dear lonely your Friend sounds like she has shredded wheat where her brains should be. You have Given up your role As a wife to be a Good Mother to your teen agers. What Are you getting out of this arrangement the privilege of keeping your husband s room clean and washing his underwear what if his flings last until he is 80? and in the meantime what kind of example is he setting for his children Tell your husband we All make mistakes and you made a beaut when you agreed to the spare room arrangement. And unless he is witling to go for counsel ing and try to repair your marriage he can Clear out and you la see him in court. Letters Tor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447. Mount Morris Iii. 61054. 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