European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - August 30, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Tuesday August 30, 1994 Tail Lull in pee v i amp ate i surgery could help love life dear readers i am on vacation but i have left behind some of my favorite columns that you May have missed the first time around. I Hope you enjoy them. A a a v. A. Ann Landers dear Ann Landers. A a George and i Are in our mid-20s. We be been married almost a year and we love each other very Rittell our problem is that we have never had int Cocoi on our weddin night we tried but Noih Trtat happened. We tried a few More times but still nothing happened. When we returned from our honeymoon i went to our family doctor. He said i was perfectly Normal but sometimes it takes More Effort and More trying. Well after a month of a Effort Ann Landers and trying a we gave up. In a ashamed to go Back to that Doc Tor. George is a swell Guy but i am not sure whether he considers himself inadequate or if he figures in a to blame. He is a Little upset with the doctor and thinks we should have been Given More help. Please Ann is this problem uncommon what do you suggest a Virgin wife dear wife. George is right. Your doctor should have Given you More help. I suggest that you see another doctor at once a a gynaecologist this time. A simple surgical procedure performed in the office could solve the problem. Dear Ann Landers am in love with a Man who treats me great. A a Gerry is a wonderful person. That a the Good news. The bad news is that Gerry is an sex convict. He went wrong Early in life for reasons i wont go into but he has paid his debt to society and in a sure this Man will never again break the Law. My parents think very highly of Gerry but in a afraid if they learn of his record they will turn against him. I want to get married and then Tell them. Gerry says. A no that would be Ann if they forbid me to marry this Man ill die. What should i do a twisted Heartstrings dear . Gerry is right. Tell your parents about his record before you marry him. They might learn of it later and then you would both lose their Confidence and Trust. The fact that Gerry wants your folks to know his history before you marry Speaks Well for him. Good tuck. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to Hor at . Box 11562, Chicago. 111.60611-0562. A. A a a a a a. C creators Syndicate. Sexless husband drives wife up Wall editors note dear Abby is on a two week vacation. Following is a selection of some of her favorite past letters from the Early 1970s. Dear Abby i am writing to you because i am terribly frustrated and am too ashamed to talk to anyone else about the problem. I am married to a basically wonderful Guy except for one problem. He is totally uninterested in sex. He a 28, handsome and in apparent Good health so done to Tell me to Send him to a doctor. He loathes them. I am 27 and i won several Beauty contests in College. In a cheerful educated mentally and physically healthy and All i want is a decent sex life. In be tried All the gimmicks sexy nightgowns discussing it with him leaving Good books and Magazine Arti a a cles around for him to see. Nothing helps. We have one child a Miracle and my husband did no to come near me for six months after that. I feel rejected. In be considered having an affair but id feel too guilty to enjoy it i done to want to divorce him because outside of this one failing i love him. How can i turn him on abandoned in bed in Philadelphia dear abandoned if he a physically healthy and done to be so sure he i dear Abby his problem could be in his head. But no matter where it is unless he regards it As a problem that he wants to solve you re fighting a losing Battle. So you can either continue in a marriage that a sexually inadequate or Call it quits. It s up to you. Dear Abby my husband and i do not get along very Well. In fact if it weren to for the kids i live within 1,000 Miles of this idiot. We Are both artists. My husband now specializes in Western Art and has been Selling his paintings before the Oil is dry on the Canvas. I done to mean to put him Down but my work is much better than his even if it does no to sell half As Well. The Public just happens to be going for gimmick Art. I can hardly stand it when my husband Sells a painting. For one thing he has a Way of gloating that makes me want to put my fist right through his face. I wish i knew How to get Over this envious attitude. Can you help me envious in Montana dear envious of All the emotions envy is the most difficult to control. Since you done to even like your husband and arc competing with him professionally to Boot it will a be doubly difficult to curb your envy. Keep telling yourself that your envy is an acid which docs More damage to the Container you than to the object him. 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