European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 10, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 20 the stars and stripes saturday september 10,1994 How you can Tell he s not or. Right today a crossword dear Ann Landers in response to the letter from a dad in Anaheim a it is True that there Are signs from the very beginning that a marriage Isnit going to work. I chose to ignore Many of those signs and am willing to admit it in the Hope that i can help some Young women make better choices than i did. My experience is the result of 20 years of marriage if you add my three marriages together. Here is my advice to my daughter if and when or. Wonderful shows up and scores three or More on the following test i have one word of advice run 1. He sees a toilet Brush in the bathroom but cannot identify it. A a a a Quot 2. He tells you he loves you and asks you to marry him on _ the first Date. 3. You meet his father who is a a control Freak a and his Mother the a family Nebish a whose Only purpose in life has been to please her husband. She probably has ulcers and numerous other intestinal problems and does no to have any idea Why she is sick so much 4. He begins to advise you on ways you can change yourself so you will be More acceptable to his family and friends. 5. He borrows $5,000 in an a a emergency but does no to offer to pay it Back since it will soon be a a our Money anyway. Ann Landers i 6. He consistently refers to other people As a jerks morons and idiots a especially while driving. 7. He does no to understand Why you Arentt thrilled with the towels he brought you As a gift from the hotel he stayed at when he was away on vacation. 8. You shop with him for eight hours at 15 different menus stores. When you glance toward the women a de Arment his eyes Glaze Over and he tells you How tired e is. A Quot a a a a a. A. 9. His Long term plans include winning the lottery and or the publishers Clearing House sweepstakes. 10. You Cook a gourmet meal he enjoys in silence and he is shocked that you want him to help an up the Kitchen. Men who have this warped attitude will feel the same about children. 11. He reminds you daily How a a Lucky you Are to have him. 12. His most frequent and automatic response to your opinions is a a that a a lot of  beware of the Man who exhibits the aforementioned failings but insists that he just a loves  translated this Means a put a bag on their Heads and they All look alike.�?�. Single and Content in Clayton Calif. Dear single and Conten you sound like a woman who picked some Lemons in those California Orange Groves. Thanks for the input. You be made some valid Points. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago Iii. 60611-0562. A a a a a a c creators Syndicate purse snatched but she s alive to Tell dear Abby i am also one of those who thought they would never be writing to dear Abby but after Reading the letter from a Carole in a bind a i had to offer my support. I was a victim of a teen age criminal. I was accosted by a kid who looked to be about 16, maybe 17 years old. He shoved me really hard and grabbed my purse then he ran into a Neighb ring Complex. He was never found and neither was my purse. What shocked me was the reaction and advice i got from people to whom i told this Story. Some insisted that i should have chased the kid Down and assaulted him in return. Various kicking Maneu vers were suggested. Also it dear Abby was suggested that i carry some kind of hidden weapon. Abby i was stunned at these _ suggestions. I never considered myself a Street brawler and can to imagine taking on a much younger person. A however my wonderful husband of 25 years put the Issue to rest. He simply told me that he could replace anything in my purse but he could never find another Ife like me i imply my purse by. So Tell Carole not to let anyone raise any doubts in her mind she did the right thing a and lived to Tell about it. Sharon von Trotha Hamilton Ohio dear Sharon i agree with Ybur husband. To physically confront anyone who has snatched a woman a purse or a Many a Wallet is very foolish. Unless you have taken a course in self defense and Are confident that you can defend yourself you a be Wise to write off the loss. Even kids teen aged and younger carry knives a and some carry guns. J dear Abby we live on a Corner lot. The front Yard is not fenced. With the ripening of the apples on the tree that is Between the House and the sidewalk neighbourhood kids come by pick an Apple a or an armful a take a few bites and throw the cores in my Yard or on the sidewalk i do not mind children picking my apples but i think they should ask first. Apple Annie in Tacoma Wash. 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