European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 13, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Tuesday september 13, 1994 still hooked on married sex Lover dear Ann Landers i met a Man while on my Job. I was not looking to woman. And he knew i was married. He complimented me flirted with me gave me gifts and wrote Melove notes. I found myself fall ing in love with him. We had an intense sexual relationship that lasted nearly two months. I began to pressure Allen to choose Between his wife and me and then everything fell apart. He dropped me like a hot potato. No explanations no apologies no nothing. I was so Hurt about the Way i was treated that i wrote his wife a letter and told her about us. The following week i called his Home to let his wife know How he had misled me. She Hung up on me. I am sure i am not the first woman he has cheated with and i needed to get even. The problem is i still love him and i can t seem to Lego. Please Tell me How to forgive and forget him. Hopelessly hooked in  hooked i suggest that you take your broken heart and mixed up head to a Good therapist. You need to find out Why you behave in such a self destructive manner. Cheating with Allen was bad enough but writing to his wife and phoning his Home is truly bizarre behave Ann Landers for. Please get some help. Dear Ann Landers i quit smoking a Long time ago but if i were still a smoker i certainly would have quit after watching an extremely Well done television program on the discovery Channel a few weeks ago. One segment showed eight to 10 men and women sit Ting around a table. All had had their voice boxes re moved because of cancer of course and they were practising speaking through the holes in their throats. It was one of the most shocking scenes i have overseen. I dare anyone to watch this program and Light up again --c.p., san Antonio . Many experts in the Field of addiction say it is More difficult to get off cigarettes if you Are truly hooked than off cocaine. Aside from the Cost in terms of human misery the financial Burden imposed by smokers is horrendous. Still millions of americans have quit smoking. The cig Arette companies arc trying to pick up the Slack by targeting teen agers and i m sorry to say they Are succeeding. A. ". -. " / if there was a drug that killed even a Small percent age of the number of people killed by cigarettes i would be declared illegal. Of what fools we mortals be. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chi Cago 111.60611-0562C creators Syndicate Bible gift Story Worth remembering dear Abby several years ago you printed a letter from a Young Man who had been expecting a hew car for his High school graduation gift. To his great disappointment he received a Bible instead. Out of anger he stormed out of the House and never spoke to his father again. After his father s funeral the Young Man located the Bible his lather had Given him Only to find a key to a new car taped in the Back. ". That column was so moving that my husband who manages very Busy restaurant Over heard Many customers talking about it. Our pastor would like C.P. of that column for a future Sermon. I would be most grateful if you would please Send me that column. Valerie Bosselman Omaha neb. Dear Valerie that column is a longtime favorite of mine. However As is often the Case a few details Are somewhat differ ent from the Story your husband recalled. Here s the original dear Abby dear Abby a Young Man from a wealthy family was about to graduate from High school. It was the custom in that affluent neighbourhood for the parents to give the Grad uate an automobile. Bill and his father had spent months looking at cars and the week before Grad i Tiosh they found the perfect car. On the eve of his graduation his father handed him a gift wrapped Bible. Bill was so angry that he threw the Bible Down and stormed out of the House. He and his father never saw each other again. It was the news of his father s death that brought Bill Home again. As he sat one night going through his father s posses Sions that he was to inherit he came across the Bible his father had Given him. He brushed away the dust and opened it to find a cashier s Check dated the Day of his graduation in the exact amount of the car they had chosen together. Beckahm Fink  i Hope Bill read the Bible cover to cover for it contained much that he needed to learn a foolish son is a grief to his father and bitterness to her who Bare him proverbs 17 25 letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . 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