European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 28, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 22 the stars and stripes wednesday september 28,1994 close quarters spawned Bank error dear Ann Landers a i am 41. For 20 years i worked As a Bank Teller and never had a problem. Two years ago the Bank began hiring its first male tellers. Twice a week i worked alone with a a bobs until the drive in window closed. Bob was Nice Good looking neat and a pleasure to work with. The Teller area is Small and we got to know each other pretty Well. Before Long he Tola me that his marriage was miserable and that he had no feelings for his wife. The next night after closing # Bob suddenly embraced me said i was the most exciting woman he had Ever met Ana promised to divorce his wife if i would let him make love to me. Even though i had a Good husband and two Lovely children i gave in. A a v a. Our affair went on for several months and Bob said it was the happiest time of his life. We agreed that we would divorce our mates and get married. I asked my husband for a divorce. When i asked Bob if he had talked to his wife he said a a in a afraid you be taken this fling too  within weeks Bob got another Job and left the Bank. I begged my husband to forgive me and thank god he did. Quot in a not asking for advice Ann. I just want businesses to know what can happen when they create situations where men and women work closely in isolation. Naive in Missouri Ann Landers dear Missouri done to blame  it was your failure to conduct yourself in a mature and responsible manner that caused the mess. Dear Ann Landers will you please help me Deal with a problem that is causing me a lot of pain an old High school Friend recently died after a five year Battle with cancer. She was Only 26. We had been close pals in High school but she married at 17, and i went to College and moved away. When i heard a a Pearl had died i sent a sympathy card to her sister As Well As one to her parents and her husband. Her sister returned my card with a note saying a where were you for the past five years no Calls or visits. Did you really care about Pearl a her comments Hurt me terribly. I done to know How or if i should respond. I feel guilty and horrible and done to know what to do about it. How can i put this behind mortified in Memphis dear Memphis done to judge pearls sister too harshly. She has suffered a tremendous loss and needs to be forgiven for her inappropriate behaviour. On the other hand i see no reason for you to feel a guilty and  friends often Drift apart when one moves to another City. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Cal Cago Iii. 60611-0562. A c creators Syndicate. Seating at wedding causes filial rift dear Abby a year and a half ago my daughter ill Call her Betty was married in a Beautiful Church wedding. Although her Mother and i have been divorced for seven years and we have both remarried i paid for half of everything. My present wife urged me to make sure Betty had a first class wedding and i did. Now the problem Betty wanted me to sit with her mom during the ceremony. I thought it would look strange if her mom and Stepfather and i plus the grooms parents All sat together while my wife sat alone so i sat with my wife. Since then Betty has been very Cool to me she Hasni to called or come by nothing. Abby i love my daughter very much. I apologized to her and told her i did no to realize it meant so much to her to have me with her Mother. Was i wrong to sit with my wife sad dad Memphis Tenn. Dear sad dad done to let your daughter Lay a guilt trip on you. You acted appropriately when you chose to sit with your dear Abby wife rather than have her sit alone. Dear Abby occasionally one hears someone described As a a Good christians a or someone did the a a christians thing. I think what is. Meant by this is that the person is of Good character. Abby this Type of person can be found among All faiths whether he or she is Muslim Buddhist hindu jewish Bahai or even atheist. The use of the word a a christians to mean a of impeccable character is hurtful to those who Are not Chris Tian. If we All want to live together on this planet with respect and acceptance we need to find a better Way to describe Good character. I happen to be a Good person but i am not a Christian. If you use my letter please sign me Good but not a Christian in la Honda Calif. Dear Good you Are right a christians do not have a monopoly on Good character. Better to say a so and so is a Good person a or a so and so did a Good or kind  one can find people of Good character a and bad a in every religion and race. Letters Tor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris Iii. 61054. A. 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