European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 8, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday october 8, 1994 the stars and stripes. Page 21 today a crossword Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i have a message for . In mid America a the woman who wrote and asked if she should marry  she was having second thoughts because the Guy was judgmental and opinionated and he had no friends. I too had a a a Rod in my life but unfortunately i went a bit further than she did. I married the Man and had his child. Three years was All i could stand i finally picked myself up from the Doormat position and moved on. Now in a just another one of the people he runs Down insults and  Mouths. The reason the rods in this world have no social life is quite a a a a a a simple. No one wants to be around them. The Day you have to apologize for a Man and explain to people that you Are not like him a that is the Day you should hand him his hat. Men like Rod Are like Bass Drums a they make a lot of noise but they re empty inside. Happy now in Osterville mass dear Happy now thanks for an on the spot appraisal. My congratulations on having the courage to admit you made a mistake and then move on. A very smart retailer 1 knew once said a your first markdown is the cheapest. Take it and done to look  in other words when you see you be made a merchandising error you take your loss Early and done to wait around. Here a another letter on the same subject dear Ann Landers. / a / a. This is for . In mid american who wanted to know if she should marry a Rod a the opinionated judgmental offensive Jerk who had no friends but treated her wonderfully. Tell . As soon As she is married to this Man he will pick her family to pieces and then he will go after her a belittling and criticizing her every word and deed. She will never be Able to please him no matter How hard she tries a even if she Abandons her family and cuts herself off from old friends. No matter How Good he is to her now or How much love he professes he will think he owns her. This Man is dangerously jealous and intensely insecure. Tell her to drop the Guy like a hot Brick and run for her Freedom while she can. Stuck in Boston dear stuck Well said thanks for the reinforcement. Dear Ann Landers you be told your readers How to get rid of warts. Now will you please Tell them what they can do to get the itch out of Mosquito bites the secret is to rub the bite As soon As possible with a freshly Cut onion. This takes the swelling right Down and believe me it works. Itch less in Ohio dear Ohio its been so cold in Chicago there Haven to been any mosquitoes but i Hope some of my Southern readers will try it and let me know if it  to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago 111. 60611 -0562 c creators Syndicate. Widow s grief needs kind response dear Abby nine months ago my husband of 23 years died suddenly and unexpectedly. Although most of my friends have been very helpful i was appalled by the behaviour of Many of my acquaintances. They actively avoided me to the Point of ducking in supermarket aisles for about six months. After that they acted As if nothing had happened. I know these people Are not purposely cruel. They just did no to know what to say and now they Are afraid to a a remind me of my loss. A simple a a in a so sorry Quot is All i want to hear a and believe me the loss is with me All the time. Sometimes i get the impression someone does not know my husband has died so i Tell him or her Only to hear a ooh yeah i read about  Abby All i want is to have my loss acknowledged. Do people fear a scene the Best thing i have Ever done is join the widowed persons service sponsored by the Harp and local Community organizations. I also joined a bereavement group sponsored by hospice. Only other widowed people know How i feel and take dear Abby a tuesday will be a Tough Day for you. May we spend my feelings seriously. The following appeared in a recent . Newsletter. I Hope you think it is Worth printing after someone has died say. A what i always liked about was a a a a in la never forget the time he and i a a May i take the kids to the Beach today a a a it Sok. Tell me again about a a i just phoned to say hello. A a it together a. A i thought you might need a hug or someone to hold your hand  v a you done to have to hide your  a a in a love to trim Bushes Etc. May i do it for you a the Best thing anybody who did not know my husband personally said to me was a i was so sorry to read about your husbands death. Would you like to talk about it a a a widow in new London Conn. Dear widow please accept my condolences on the loss of your beloved husband. And thank you for a very helpful letter. Letters Lor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . 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