European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 11, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 20 the stars and stripes tuesday october 11,1994 insensitive lout ruined sex for wife today s crossword dear Ann Landers i could t believe the incredible insensitivity of that Florida Man who said he knew on his honeymoon that his wife was never going to give him great sex. If his first experience had been disappointing and painful he might have enjoyed it less himself. He married a Virgin for heaven s first experience was darn near rape and it never got much better. My husband insisted on sex three times week for 29 years. I tried very hard to enjoy it but never quit made the Grade. Meanwhile he got his satisfaction but he me How Lousy i was in bed. His problem was that he was impatient and inconsiderate. It never occurred to him that he might be at fault. So now my midlife crisis Hus band is out there trying to Fin somebody who is More skilled than i am. I just Hope and Pray that what he does t find is aids. Tattered ego in California dear California do More than Pray. Make sure you protect s another letter on the same subject dear Ann Landers the Man from Florida who complained about mos women s Lack of interest in sex hit it right on the nose. For years the most often repeated phrase around our House has been please Honey not wife is always too tired too worried about other Ann Landers things or just not in the mood. She says that she hashed her children and sees no need for us to do that stuff anymore. I really do not want to cheat on her but what else is there to do several of my male friends who Are also in their Early 50s have told me the same thing is True in their marriages. Ann please Tell the wives who read your column to think about their husbands needs. I m sure there would be a lot less cheating if men were Well cared for at Home. I frustrated in Philadelphia dear Phil i Hope you read the letter above this one. If so maybe you d better read it again. Here s More. Dear Ann Landers Well Toots you really blew it this time. I la bet you hear plenty from women Over 60 about Florida the old Gaffer who has been married for 40 years and his wife in t interested in sex. Let me guess the scenario on their wedding night he informed her that it was her duty and his due after a hard Day s work. After All she Only had to spend the Day cooking cleaning doing the laundry and taking care of the kids. He was always too tired to go out but she was never allowed to be too tired to do her the Day he retired from his Job so did i to another bedroom. After 40 years of doing my duty my tired old body and i can now go to sleep in peace. Sleeping Well in Kansas loners to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chi Cago Iii. 60611-0562. C creators Syndicate husband s night hours need a shift dear Abby my husband works As a Security guard full time on the Midnight shift. He makes $5.50 an hour. I also work full time on an afternoon shift making almost three times As much As he does. We Are working these shifts so we Don t need outside Day care for our children. We have a baby together and he has a son by a previous marriage who lives with us my problem is that he has been on the Midnight shift for More than two years and i have been getting very depressed slime goes by. 1 would like him to find a daytime Job and i will continue working afternoons. That Way we still won t Nee Day care but we could at least sleep together at night. He knows How miserable i am but he does t even look for a Job. Abby we Are newlyweds of just Over a year. This inputting a Strain on our relationship because i feel he does t care enough to do something about it. On the weekends he needs to catch up on his sleep and spend quibble dear Abby More time with the kids and i feel like a third wheel. I miss my husband so much but i guess he just does t feel the same. He reads dear Abby so i Hope he sees this. Please Tell me what is wrong with him or me. Third wheel dear third wheel no amount of Money will compensate for the time you spend away from each other. This is much too serious a problem to Hope he reads about it in the dear Abby column. Collar him and in Sist that you see a marriage Counselor together. Dear Abby in a recent column about the dangers of being locked in the trunk of a car you made an Appeal for Detroit and Japan to install a safety Latch in the trunk. Abby i own a 1991 Honda Accord which came witha Latch that will release the locked Back seat. I Don t know when they started putting them in but i m sure glad they did. Mrs. . Strong Redlake Minn. Letters Lor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . 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