European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 10, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 32 the stars and stripes thursday november 10,1994 Coupe still shunned of fad by ban. I i ,.,. ,.dear Ann Landers a year ago i wrote to you about my Fiance s family being very upset that i did not want infants at my wedding Iyo gave me the support needed and i was grateful. My sister in Law refused to attend the wedding with out her baby and vowed never to speak to me or my husband again. Jack and i Are not invited to any holi Day family gatherings which Are almost always held at her Home. I can t understand Why my Mother in Law lets this go on. I Tsure if she spoke with he daughter something could be worked out but she chooses to do  feels that he is being punished by his family for no including the baby at our wed Ding. I know he is Hurt that Weare it longer invited to Holiday and birthday celebrations Jack s brother is getting mar ried soon. Should i try to mend fences at the wedding we want to be part of the family  hurts to be left out of everything. Please advise. Outlawed in Barre mass. Dear outlawed by All Means speak to your Mother in Law about this spiteful  should not be allowed to continue. Babies and very Young children do not belong at formal  has been my position for As Long As i have been writing the column so you can blame me. Dear Ann Landers a few years ago you ran a column that listed some unusual scholarships that not Many people were aware  would be very grateful if you would run that column Ann Landers again. Thanks. Eager scout in the Midwest dear scout Here s an excerpt of the column you Are referring to. It Rah in 1988. I urge All High school students especially those inter ested in Harvard or Amherst two of the finest schools in the country to Check out All the possibilities. Dear Ann Landers a Story in the Wall Street journal by Carrie Dola mentioned some interesting scholarship opportunities. I la bet if you printed them some of your readers would profit from the information. In 1988, the University of California was not Able to find a recipient for a scholarship fund Worth nearly $400,000. They were looking for a needy jewish orphan who wanted to be an aeronautical Engineer. Ryan Catling of Pocomoke City md., received $7,000 a year from North Carolina state because of his name. John galling a Raleigh businessman set up the $1.2 million fund several years ago to give an educational Edge to students named Catling. " r Harvard offers scholarships to students named pen Noyer Downer and Ellis regardless of need. Christina Schreiber received a $14,000 scholarship because she is a descendant of William Floyd a Long Island Farmer. Amherst College has a scholarship for a worthy Stu Dent of moderate ability who fails to win a prize or get help from any other  Ann please continue to urge students who want financial help to be aggressive about inquiring. They just might hit the Jackpot letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chi Cago. Iii. 6061t-0562. C creators Syndicate a As need sometimes turns of greed dear Abby i recently attended a Shower for a couple who were married Only eight months ago. Two months after their wedding the House they were renting burned to the ground and they lost everything they owned. The people in the Community As Well As their co workers family and friends responded immediately with Money food and clothing. Following the fire they had moved into her parents Home with no expenses whatsoever they have been Given two replacement showers to re place the gifts they had received from the four or five showers before their wedding. I had attended one i recently Learned that they were fully insured and have been compensated for everything they lost. Quibble dear Abby now they Are preparing to move into a very expensive Home they re building. I la probably be invited to a House waiting next and most Likely to one of the Many baby showers for the child they Are expecting in four months. I Don t mind helping people in time of need but Don t you think these replacement showers were Tacky and a bit much to ask of people who had already Given and done so much appalled Down South dear appalled it was indeed Tacky for the couple to have accepted two replacement showers knowing that their losses were completely covered by insurance s shape on them. When the news of their reimbursement gets out audit will Many others will be appalled Down  letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris. Iii. 61054. C Universal press Syndicate. Today s crossword across 1 partner s fair share 5 Bill s. 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