European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 17, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Saturday december 17, 1994to Cook up dear Ann Landers this recipe for a vital marriage was written in afew minutes As my wife and i prepared to Host a pre nuptial luncheon. It was meant to be amusing but it turned out to be More than that. If you think your Reader would find it interesting i d be honoured to share it. K. Michael Lipkin or. Lipkin thanks for a recipe that is sure to produce excellent results if followed carefully. Here it is recipe for a Vita marriage use equal parts of Ann Landers care love Friendship passion respect blend with much understanding and lots of forgive Ness. Bake continuously in the oven of commit nent an Trust. Baste often and liberally with a sense of humor. Serve with plenty of communication in a problem solving atmosphere. Especially Good when shared with Loving family and friends note this is a Tricky recipe that requires careful at Tention and the participation of both Cooks. When it Falls Flat Check All ingredients and increase amounts As needed prepare it often for Best results. Dear Ann Landers our son s birthday is on new year s eve. When hews very Young we had birthday get together with the family but were never Able to have a real party with Ness other children since everyone was Busy with Adlida plans. When Johnny was 3,1 read in your column about another whose daughter was born on Jan. 1 but celebrated on june 1, which was More convenient for the relatives. A / to i started having these half a birthday parties each june and Johnny loved them. T we be had a Day at the circus a skating party and a picnic. ,. L Johnny always knew this was not the actual Date Ofhie birth. V " ". The family acknowledges his real birthday by giving him a Small gift and celebrating with a cake. I love the reaction of adults and children when he refers to his 7haif-a-birthday," and i explain Why there is half a Cand e on his cake. In phase suggest to parents that they have their children s birthday celebrations on Days that Are convenient rather Thanhie actual Day. It makes a Hofmo Desense and the children Don t mind at All. Dearie , la. I agree. However my twin and i were born on july4th, so there Are always plenty of fireworks set off by others i might add. Our parents in their Wisdom would not let us have them. Dear Ann Landers should a Man pay the baby Sitter when he takes out working woman with Young children there Are times when the Sitter costs More than the dinner Check. I d like to Chip in and help the woman out. What s proper Dea Syd Syd it depends on her financial status. If the working woman is just getting by and you like her a lot i see nothing wrong with paying the Sitter. Letters to Narv Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562 Chi Cago Iii. 60611-0562. / c creators Syndicate f squeals on clod loses mom s love dear Abby after my father s death i was disowned by my Mother and my siblings because i revealed that my father had sexually molested me while was growing up. He died with out apologizing or even acknowledging what he had done i was devastated and entered both group and individual ther apy i also received counselling from my pastor. My husband and children supported me. My other rela Tives deny that the abuse overtook place and say if it did i should have dealt with it alone and kept quiet about it. Abby i did what i thought was right i got professional help and ended these Crecy but my Mother s rejection is even More painful dear Abby than the incest. Mother refuses to get help. She refused to speak Tomy therapist or my pastor. She says there is no Way to repair the damage i did to the family when i revealed the can i get my Mother Back this separation i destroying me. Aching in atlant adear aching you May not be Able to get your Mother Back but reassured that you acted properly when you revealed the molestation. Your Mother needs professional help but unfortunately there is none so Blind As one who chooses not to see. Letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . 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